Orgasmic Mastery — A Course for Men
Week 5: Sound
- An Introduction to Sound
- A Quick Analogy
- Moving Energy With Sound
- Different Kinds of Sound
- Women LOVE It!
- The Secret to Getting More Blowjobs!
- A Demonstration of Sound
- Feel It!
- Try It!
- On Navigating House Dynamics
- This Week’s Erotic Self-Explorations
- Partner Practices
- More Kegels
Learning how to fully express sound as part of my sexuality was a key step on my journey. Sound has completely transformed my sexual experiences. When you express sound, you not only broadcast your pleasure, you actually increase and elicit deeper levels of pleasure. In other words – once you get comfortable with using sound, you will be making sounds not only because sex feels good, your sex will feel good because you are making sounds. If you are the silent type, learning to really explore sound will change everything!
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Just to put in perspective, sex without sound is like a pencil drawing of a sunset in comparison to a 3D, surround sound IMAX motion video experience of a sunset. I know that sounds unbelievable, but when you have your first orgasm that’s deeper and more satisfying as a result of sound, you’ll never want to go back.
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Sound helps you experience greater pleasure, but it can also act as a pressure release valve. When you feel that you’re experiencing too much pressure buildup in your pelvis and you’re afraid you’re going to pop and ejaculate – and you don’t want to — you can use your sound to move that energy up and through your body, dispersing it (while feeling it!).
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From moans to growls, high pitches to low pitches, hums to even za za zas, there are infinite ways play with sound. Explore and find what works for you. Listen to the video above for examples.
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If you feel silly or awkward about this exploration, let me assure you: Women love hearing their man make sounds. Think about it, does it turn you on when you hear your girl making noises and going off during sex? Chances are, it will turn her on, too! And to top it off, it will likely set you apart from ‘all those other guys’.
The Secret to Getting More Blowjobs!
Please login or register for Orgasmic Mastery to view this content.Sound is also an amazing instant feedback mechanism. If you just lay there while she goes down on you, not making a peep, no wonder she doesn’t do it as often as you’d like! Have you ever gone down on a woman who was completely silent and just lay there? Not much of a turn on. Let her hear you. Let her feel you. Don’t be surprised if all of a sudden you’re getting more head than ever before.
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A small taste of some of the ways in which I can really go off with sound.
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True Orgasmic Mastery involves not only having full choice over if and when you ejaculate, but so much more. Many men who want to be able to last as long as they want do so by learning to feel less sensation during the sexual experience. They believe they are coming too quickly because they are too sensitive, so they try to feel less by using desensitizing creams, thinking about baseball, and so on. That is not Orgasmic Mastery. With true Orgasmic Mastery, you have the ability to fully feel, in fact, to tune in and increase your sensitivity, increase what you are feeling, utilize that towards greater heights of pleasure for both you and your partner.
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Perhaps exploring sound is a bit scary or intimidating for you. That’s okay. It was for me, too — very much so, in fact. Do it anyway. You don’t need to sound like me. Find your own sounds. Lean into your edge. Do a practice exploration along with this video.
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If you’re worried about your roommates, lover/spouse, kids, or parents hearing you while you make your sounds, watch this clip for some tips on how to navigate those situations.
Week 5 Homework:
This Week’s Erotic Self-Explorations
Please login or register for Orgasmic Mastery to view this content.Bringing intentional use of sound into your Erotic Self-Explorations
Does your partner make a lot of sound? Give particular attention this week to allowing her sound to inspire you. Match it. Mirror it. Play call and response. Think of it as a erotic sounding duet.
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We’re keeping it easy this week. Just continue what you were doing last week. 100 rapid squeeze/releases and 20 slow squeezes (with controlled release). Twice daily. Keep strengthening that PC muscle!