I recently saw a Tweet from my friend, John Alanis about how to handle a woman with hair extensions.
Dating advice for a guy going out with a girl with hair extensions?
QUESTION: “This girl likes me to stroke her hair like I am petting a cat or something, but I felt some weird things like clips or something in there and she freaked out. What is that? What do I need to know about physical contact with her so she doesn’t freak out again?”
SLOANE: Many women today wear hair extensions. They can be sewn in, glued in or clipped in. If you stroke her hair and feel “something,” just talk to her about it like this:
“Your hair is beautiful and I felt a clip in it, so I’m going to be very careful when I stroke you. Tell me if you have any boundaries with regard to your hair or your make up or any part of you. I’m happy to steer clear of any spots that make you feel the slightest bit uncomfortable because I want you to totally relax and enjoy our time together.”
This is a good way to communicate with every woman you date before you get close to her. Find out if she has any boundaries and really listen to her answer.
Hope that helps! Just be glad you are with a woman who takes care of hear appearance and wants to be gorgeous for you and herself.
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In my past, I dated a girl who wore a very attractive wig. Guess how I found out it was a wig? We were intensively and madly kissing for the first time and it fell off!
Wigs are fun. I especially like pink ones.
My wife has extensions & I always make myself aware. After reading some man related articles, they suggested women love sex doggie style & having their hair pulled. So I’ve substituted hair pulling by rest my hands near her inner shoulders to give the effect similar to hair pulling. Always a substitute !!
Stay Sexy
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Sloane-
Your advice about checking early about any boundary issues she might have is a pregnant idea.
Matt Donnelly