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How To Get A Blow Job By Making It a "Blow Vacation"

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A “blow vacation” is the idea of making it fun for her. Here’s how.

Watch This Video And Discover The One Simple Trick That Turns Giving You A Blow Job Into Her New Favorite Hobby

(Even If She “Doesn’t Like Doing That” Now)

[Video]: “The Real Reason Women Don’t Like Giving Head” <=== Click Here!

In my intimate conversations with many men

they confess the one thing they never get enough of are…

blowjobs.

This scarcity is a source of pain. Men want to know how to entice and delight their woman and fear that she doesn’t truly enjoy fellatio.

It is possible to turn your woman around and get her to love going down on you.

Read below the 7 feminine points of view that will increase the quality and quantity of oral sex you are getting.

You see, I had a 180° change of heart. Now thinking about having my man that close to me is a turn on. It invades my daytime fantasies…

I used to think blow jobs were a chore, until hubby began with these three things:

  • First, he got really good at giving me orgasms in many ways and “filled me up” sexually. Once I was sexually satisfied, I was in a mindset to “give back.”
  • Secondly, he started teasing me, calling them “blow vacations,” which re-framed the idea more pleasurably in my mind.
  • Third, he came up with the idea of “Three Little Licks.” This is a small offer, one of the four keys to seduction, which increases the likelihood that she’ll be willing to do it if there’s a finite end to the proposition and she won’t be “down there” bobbing her head for an hour trying to get you off.

Hubby made it clear that I should only do what ever made me feel good – if three licks were all I wanted to give him, then three licks it was and he was appreciative.

I really didn’t know what I was doing. With limited experience, I didn’t have a big repertoire of “moves,” didn’t feel confident I could do a good job sucking him and didn’t want to get into a situation where I was flailing around.

The “three little licks” were just enough in the beginning to get me to try again after many years of not giving him any oral.

In addition, I’ve created a little list of considerations that will help you encourage your woman and have some empathy for her situation.

Below are 7 feminine points of view that will increase the quality and quantity of oral sex you are getting.

1) Recommendation: Oral Fixation

I recommend Oral Fixation, Michael Fiore’s new product that helps you know exactly what to say and do to get her to LOVE giving you head.  He’s a genius at teaching guys how to motivate, inspire and communicate with women. Make sure you watch his video.

[Video]: “The Real Reason Women Don’t Like Giving Head”

2) Direction

She wants to please you. Tell her what you like. What are three of your favorite moves?

Do you like your balls licked?

Do you like the wide, flat of her tongue dragged up the shaft from the base of your cock and swirled around the head?

Do you love it when she holds the base of your cock securely while she changes sucking patterns around your glans?

Tell her what you like so she has plenty of ideas from which to choose.

Secondly, give her a lot of audible feedback when you’re in her mouth. Moan, growl, thank her, guide her, tell her when it feels particularly good.

Third, stroke her and touch her while you’re in her mouth. Make sure you are also keeping her in a state of delicious sensation, even if it just includes running your hands down her back.

She’ll feel grounded and more confident when you are actively supporting her.

3) Appreciation

In addition to the positive feedback during your “blow vacation,” make sure to thank her and share your favorite moments afterward with some pillow talk. We call them “frames,” when you actually describe the sensations of the experience and what you loved about them.

For example, a frame I’d share would be:

“I loved when I put you in my mouth half hard and you got harder and harder and filled my mouth with your desire for me.” “It’s such a turn on for me to feel you.”

You might say, “When you tickled my balls while you were swirling your tongue around the head of my cock, I looked down at you and felt so much love for you, baby.”

Do not expect reciprocity. If you give her oral, don’t expect it in return. If she gives you a blow job, don’t assume she wants oral. Run her a menu of offers (4 keys to seduction) such as:

After you give me a little pleasure, I could reciprocate, I could stroke you with my fingers, I could make love to you, I could even simply give you a sensual massage. Let her choose, unless she really prefers you just handle all the decision-making (also hot!).

4) Physical

I cannot emphasize enough how important grooming is. Make sure you are sweet smelling and you have weed whacked your pubic hair back (Bonus! Trimming makes your cock look longer!) and even shaved your balls. There are excellent trimmers at BeaverShaver.com

As well, it’s helpful to be able to have a really solid erection. If you are at all nervous, consider taking a little bit of a Viagra. It’s fast-acting and works well in stressful situations.  Take just a part of one and let it melt under your tongue. There’s nothing worse for a woman than giving her guy a blow job and she’s not getting him hard.

5) Security

Most importantly, keep your porno moves out of the interaction. Unless she asks you, or you are quite ardent love-makers, don’t pump your cock in and out of her mouth or pull her head onto your cock unless she wants you too. This can gag her and make her stop. Those are advanced moves you have to work your way up to.

It will take her quite a few practice sessions to start getting turned on enough to develop the saliva required for deep-throating and for her throat to open enough to accommodate this kind of play. (more on this in an upcoming post)

And finally, turn her on first so when she has you in her mouth, she’s already aroused and it feels good to her to suck and lick your cock. Spend 20 minutes stroking her body and kissing her before you let her put you in her mouth. This will work wonders in creating more enjoyment on her end.

6) Time Frame

Set a fixed amount of time so she knows it’s not going to go on and on. At least to get her started. The “Three Little Licks” is one way. Another is to say, let’s just start with a few minutes – and only do it as long as you are truly enjoying it. The minute it feels like work, just stop, darling, and let me thank you.

7) Positions

Body-dynamics are an important consideration. And if your cock curves a certain way, you’ll adjust for that. Make sure she’s comfortable so she can relax and enjoy herself. Depending on how well matched you are size-wise, you’ll have to find good positions for both of you. Here are three of my personal favorites you can customize.

The first is you laying on your back, she’s straddling you, on top of you, belly to belly with her head in your crotch. If she doesn’t want you looking right at her pootie, have her wear a negligee or something that makes her feel more comfortable in this vulnerable position.

Remember, though this is like 69, she’s putting her attention on you, so just stroke her but let her focus. And you can relax into the sensation she’s delivering and give her excellent auditory feedback to empower her further.

The second position is a similar 69 style, but you are lying on your side, she’s facing you, lying on her side, with a pillow or two under her head so she can relax and just play and enjoy your penis without having to kneel, or hold herself up.

The third position is great for polarity – making her feel very submissive and you dominant. That’s where you are standing or leaning or sitting in a chair and she’s kneeling or sitting on her heels and sucking you. That can be very hot and is great for you stroking her hair and shoulders and arms and playing with her breasts.

I hope this gave you a woman’s perspective.

Don’t forget to watch the Oral Fixation video.

[Video]: “The Real Reason Women Don’t Like Giving Head”

With love,
Sloane Fox

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