Energetic Connection = Passion = Touching For Rapture
Yesterday I turned you on to Touch for Rapture.
This is the way Dr. Patti begins to explain how a couple can experience ONEness during an Expanded Orgasm session.
You’re sharing a mutual sensation – both experiencing her side of the pleasure and your side of the pleasure, simultaneously.
You’re stroking, she’s feeling the sensations caused by your stroking.
Your next stroke is premeditated – designed even – to take her into more sensation and pleasure.
She’s feeling you feeling her.
You’re feeling her feeling you.
You’re both sharing in each other’s pleasure.
That’s what Touching For Rapture starts to create – the first step on the road to ONEness.
The touch is first, then your bodies meeting after the Expanded Orgasm date, if you segue into lovemaking.
You may have started by looking into each other’s eyes.
Punctuated by moments of deep kissing.
Then, you are inside her and it feels like your bodies are one conjoined circuit of energy.
That moment when the two of you are making love and you’re totally connected in your humanity.
My friend, Jamie says when she achieves this state with a lover it feels like,”the embodiment of the divinity” to her.
Most people would probably describe this feeling as PASSION.
In my mind, passion is more body-based. That carnal arousal and horniness-through-satisfied feeling range. It’s WANT.
Energetic connection comes from opening all the channels of your awareness to your lover:
Your touch, breath, sight, smell, sound… your senses open.
Your love, appreciation, history… your emotions open.
Your desire, your arousal, your turn-on, your willingness to feel how much you want this, your sexuality opens.
You open yourselves on many dimensions to each other.
You witness each other’s experience and enhance it by giving her what turns her on.
And trying new things you think might send her even higher.
You lead, she follows, in the polarity that makes her open like a flower.
And her biofeedback navigates the way for you.
If you are introverted, or shy, or inexperienced then this may seem overwhelming, until you find you way together in it.
Just having this map that I’ve drawn for you will shine some light on where you two can learn to go together.
And if you are ahead of me on this path, I encourage you to write and share and shine the light for me.
Because I am an eager pupil in the art of love. I have so much love to give.
Click here to get Dr. Patti’s Touch for Rapture free report…