Hi Susan
I’m emailing you for help regarding my wife’s sudden loss of interest in sex. She is 48, married for 30 years. She does look younger than she is and is still a stunner in my opinion. Even get compliments in general from people that I do have young, good looking slim wife.
Anyway, up to about 45, she was very keen on sex. At times, she used to ask, “Are you up for it?” Unfortunately this has now changed completely and has continually pushed me away, stating, “Once a week is good enough,” “It is normal in a marriage,” and “I’m not in the mood.”
I’ve tried different things, romance, dinner out – no change.
Are you able to suggest what I should try… She is not keen on reading books or taking anything to increase libido.
Is it that time of late 40’s which I don’t know much about – menopause? I want to enjoy how we used to.. Can you help please?
Dot point below probably applies to us.
She’s pushing me away, low libido. ???
Thank you Susan…. Regards, Rob
Hi Rob,
I just finished an fantastic interview with Dr. Deborah Metzger that will be going into the members area of Revive Her Drive shortly. It’s all about the easy solutions to sexual issues that arise during menopause.
I know this sounds self-serving, but Bob, you should buy Revive Her Drive to get this figured out.
This is exactly WHY I created the program, to give guys a step-by-step process to figure out why her interest in having sex with you is declining.
There’s no way I can give you the answer you want in this email – because you have to do the detective work that’s outlined in the program.
The Four Elements of Revival show you how to get underneath what she’s saying or doing to overcome her resistance, fix issues like low libido, romance and sensually turn her back on and seduce her all over again.
It took years for you to get into this situation and it will take you some time to reverse it. But it IS reversible in all but the most difficult cases, of which I doubt yours is, believe me. You situation sounds extremely typical. I know you probably don’t like hearing that, but it’s likely true and REVERSIBLE!
You gotta work the plan, man.
Try it. You have EVERYTHING to lose if you don’t.
And as you get into it, I will help you figure out what to do, as will all the guys in the forum who are there helping each other.
I know this will work for you because it’s working for thousands of guys now who send me success emails and progress updates every day.
Get on the path to reconnection. And let me know how you do.
With love,
Susan Bratton
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If u are a hunter or not all men are the same, when we are young we look for the trophy until we bag it. We walk around with your chests puffed up proud as hell saying look at me an my trophey. Then we live in a fantasy world doing everything right that can b done to keep the image of a good thing. But we have convinced ourself to believe nothing can go wrong, an women are smarter than we do realize, they can see things aren’t the same as they use to b an start to lose intetest, of which men don’t know about. So what I’m talking about this quit treating her like a trophey an treat her like the LADY THAT SHE IS!!!
Revive her drive. Repeat the session.
Suz
I found out how to open and read your answer to Rob.
Love
MATT
I was seduced by my secretary and lost my wife to cancer(broken heart). Hot to trot everyday I came to her house. All work away from home days with her ended in bed and it was fantastic. Got married and everything went down hill. She complained I did not know to seduce her but we made love anyway. Explained he FIRST husband started in morning to hint and treat her specially nice and she knew. When we did make love, it was all one way. Last time 2/14/13. Now she is very ill and distant. My marriage is dead and in I am in therapy. Get out when you can unless you are asexual or enjoy masochisism. I will try to enjoy my life but try my best to be her caretaker.
Once every week!!!, I haven’t had sex with my wife for over three+ years, and I haven’t made love to her in over 20 (yes, there IS a difference). ‘Hurry up and get it over with’ is a REAL turn off, and ‘pity sex’ is worse than masturbation.
My girlfriend of 8 years and I are having similar problems. I read where you say it will take “some time” to reverse this. I am 51 and I Probably have 10 years of good sex left in me, and I just don’t know if I want to waste what time I have trying, hoping, and wishing, that she will come around. I mean, what if she doesn’t? because so far she is giving no indication that she is even remotely worried about it. then I will have wasted all that time and effort on a lost cause when It might have been better spent finding someone else maybe younger or more sexually awake.
my wife of 30 years turned 50, she proclaimed that “no one has sex after 45”, and we don’t. Can this be reversed?
I think you’re lucky! I only get it every 2 to 3 months. Gtrrrr
How about 12 years since the last marital sex … any sex at all but with my hand.
Steven,
Follow the 4 steps back to passion in Revive Her Drive. http://reviveherdrive.com
If you have ANY chance, the answer is in there.
Love,
Susan
me too
me too have the same problem.