Nothing better than a woman HUNGRY for "IT."
We get tons of frustrated emails about “getting her to initiate.”
If she’s not chasing your tail around the bedroom begging to do the Chingalinga, ask yourself this:
When you two are intimate, are you giving her boatloads of positive feedback?
Are you giving her aural appreciation – as in moaning and telling her how good she makes you feel?
Are you kissing her and hugging her and thanking her for the loving she is giving you?
Do you express your gratitude and pleasure the next day and the day after?
Surrounding her with 360 degree positive recognition for the joy she brings you will go a long way toward getting her excited to be with you again, soon.
Think of 3 things you really love about making love with her.
1. Be VERY specific, with as much detail as possible, focusing on what is real for you, what is physical, what is corporeal,
how your body and her body feel.
Note: Dr. Patti calls this, “Sharing Frames.” It’s HOT. <=== Important!
2. What is one special moment from the last time you made love that you are savoring?
3. Come up with one example of how your body felt when you two were entwined.
4. Think of your very favorite attribute of her body – what is your favorite spot today?
Now you have plenty of ideas to share with her about what it is that you loved best last time you were intimate.
We women find this absolutely intoxicating, utterly romantic.
We are gluttons for feedback, for verbalization, for appreciation.
And once you start giving it to her, she’ll start giving it back to you. Maybe even feeling sexy enough to start initiating!
Give It To Her.
Now take these things you wrote down above and use them in different ways so she really sees, hears and feels your appreciation.
She may discount or not believe what you say. For us women, it’s HARD to hear compliments.
You must persevere.
Try texting her.
Whisper these delicious sentiments in her ear as you hold her in full embrace.
Leave her a voice mail.
Write her a love note and tuck it in her purse or under her pillow.
Touch your favorite part of her body as you show her why you love it.