Lickety Split: Oral Techniques You’ve Never Seen Before
I know what you’re doing. You are so excited to bury your face in her womanly parts and drive her wild with orgasmic bliss that you are headed STRAIGHT to her clitoris with your tongue within the first five seconds of her butterflying her legs open for you.
This is a huge mistake and she’s lying there thinking you are a major rookie.
Here’s what you need to know to be a master lover in the category of cunnilingus.
FIRST BIG CONCEPT
Her vulva is comprised of a whole system of erectile tissue. The clitoris is just the tip of the iceberg and you must engorge that erectile tissue all around her Yoni before diving under her clitoral hood and stimulating her clitoris.
SECOND BIG CONCEPT
Because every woman’s pudendal nerve wiring is slightly different, the places they feel the most pleasure differ from woman to woman. Some are particularly innervated in their clitoral area, others up inside their vaginal canal along the urethral area (top of the cave) and others on the bottom wall of their vagina near the perineal sponge. You must awaken all of these areas for her by stimulating them with your fingers, tongue and penis so she continues to feel more and more pleasurable sensations nearly every time you touch her. Help her find and increase her sensation all around her whole vaginal area, both inside and out. You are creating new neural pathways from her body to her brain as you stimulate her.
THIRD BIG CONCEPT
Start on the outside and work your way in slowly. If you go straight for her clitoris it’s TOO MUCH at first. You have to massage her belly, her butt, her thighs, stroke and cup her breasts and chest, run your fingers along the crease where her legs meet her torso.
Then you can start to massage her outer labia and all the places that have pubic hair (or did, before she removed her pubic hair) with long, smooth strokes to her mons venus and her vestibular bulbs.
Look at her Yoni when you start.
It’s flaccid, like your penis before you get an erection.
Your job, before you stick your tongue on her clitoris, is to fluff up all that erectile tissue on her labia majora. Also notice that her labia minora, the little baby lips inside, will darken in color as she engorges.
Slowly and lovingly press and hold her big lips together between your fingers and send all the sexual energy and turn on you are feeling into her Yoni. Think of this as energetic lovemaking. Release and stroke. Then press again very lightly while you energetically orgasm her.
Over time you will teach her to have orgasms before you even touch her clitoris or put your fingers inside her.
FOURTH BIG CONCEPT
Use your fingers and your tongue in combination. Lick and suckle all around the outside of her vagina before you put a single finger on her clitoris or inside her. Rest one finger gently on the entrance to her vagina, before going inside. The slide your tongue oh, so slowly from that resting finger on the entrance to her vagina (called her “introitus”) and move up, along her slit, right up to her clit.
Hold the tip of your tongue on her clit without moving while you continue to rest your finger on her introitus.
FIFTH BIG CONCEPT
Start lapping and licking her clitoris and remove your finger and take the tip of your tongue up and down her slit a few times, swirling your tongue tip across her clitoral hood back and forth like a windshield wiper.
Go freestyle at this point with all your favorite moves and hers. But do not go inside her vagina yet.
SIXTH BIG CONCEPT
This one is VERY IMPORTANT. You need to get her to a level of arousal where she can start coming. You’ve done the warm up. She’s tantalized and engorged. Now you must deliver your first orgasm or she’ll get performance anxiety and get frustrated with you.
Slowly work your finger inside her as you are freestyle licking all over her vulva. If you need to put a tiny bit of organic avocado oil on the finger you are putting inside her, do so. It’s edible.
I’m not going to get into awakening her whole G-Area in this post. If you do not know every detail about this, if your woman is not having G-Area or vaginal orgasms, get my program called, “Female Liquid Orgasm” which shows you in video exactly how to give her G-Spot pleasure and even ejaculatory orgasms. This is a MUST HAVE skill for every man. If there is any reason this program is out of your budget, at least start with my free eBook, “The Truth or Myths About Female Ejaculation.”
The sixth concept is the most powerful one.
Alternate between stroking her G-Area inside with the right strokes and pressure (all covered in detail in FLO) and then rubbing across her clit hood very lightly, softly and fast, then go back inside her vagina and give her small, harder, pressure strokes on her G-Area, then go back and do circles around her clit… until she comes.
When you get really good you can add in the blended stroke where you’re doing circles or windshield wipers on her clitoral area with your tongue and fingering her G-Area.
The bottom line is that you actually have to set up quite a bit of variety of sensation that escalates over time so she can keep getting off. If she’s not getting off from this, do not overdo it. MORE isn’t the answer. Laying the base of engorgement in is the answer. That and keeping the sensation delivery consistent when you get to the alternating between G-Area and Clitoral Area.
If you follow this information, you will be able to come her over and over.
The only other thing that is super important, but it probably too much for you to take in yet is the idea of peaking her. Dr. Patti explains this very well in her free report, “The Power and Pleasure of Orgasmic Peaking.”
That’s a good foundation for you to begin giving your woman the oral sex of her life.
Remember to moan, to stop and tell her how much you love the way she tastes and smells, how much she turns you on, what a good girl she is and all kinds of reassurances and positive feedback.