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Eckert Tolle Non-Attachment Sex

Secrets to enlightened living.

The #1 thing that holds couples back from having more sex (which leads to better sex) is stress.

Are you or your partner on anti-depressants? Have trouble calming down and getting “in the mood?”

Perhaps this sage advice from spiritual teacher, Eckhart Tolle will help you feel more hopeful and happy:

“Non-resistance, non-judgment, and non-attachment are the three aspects of true freedom and enlightened living.”

– Eckhart Tolle

 FEEL IN CONTROL BY LETTING GO

Let me unpack what this means for you.

NON-RESISTANCE

Non-resistance means stop fighting what IS. Instead of worrying about things that could happen, or fighting against what is happening, just deal with and find the silver lining in what is truly occurring. Even when things are total shit, you can handle the grief, upset, fear, bitterness… knowing that, “this too shall pass.” Stop resisting what is actually occurring and find your peace within it. That reduces tremendous amounts of stress. Especially when you begin to find gratitude for what is GOOD in your life and put your attention on that. Jump off the negative loop and onto the positive.

NON-JUDGEMENT

Non-judgement means accepting people and things for what they are and being satisfied with that. Instead of thinking about how something should be in your opinion, find the goodness in what is. Accept what is and find pleasure in it.

NON-ATTACHMENT

Non-attachment means allowing what really happens to be OK with you. Instead of holding on to a certain way you want things, begin to appreciate what really IS. Let go of disappointment and find appreciation in whatever outcome happens.

When you spend your time wishing things were different, or worrying that you won’t be happy, or being negative about what is occurring, you use your valuable time and energy focused on the negative.

When you have sex with your partner, just let the lovemaking flow without a preconceived notion of what you think should happen.

One of the ways to bring non-attachment into your sex life is by using the Four Keys to Seduction found in The Seduction Trilogy.

You won’t feel rejected anymore when you begin to run your partner menus of small offers (Seduction Key #1).

WHY IS THIS REJECTION PROOF?

When you make a series of sensual offers that all sound good to you and are fine tuned to your partner’s mood, they will find or modify something from the list that becomes a surefire, “Yes!”

This awesome little technique is not only EASY, it works like a charm. All of a sudden, you are having more and better sex because you know how to run your lover a “right sized menu” that gets their sexual appetite flaring.

When you’re ready to take it to the next level. . .

More Sex More Often <=== Free book shows you the #1 Key to Seduction “Small Offers”

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I vow that this seduction strategy will escalate your sexual experiences faster than any other technique.

So remember, once you begin practicing letting go, being good with what ever IS actually occurring and you know how to run a menu of small offers, your sexual satisfaction will explode.

GO WITH WHAT IS

Accept what is happening and find pleasure in it instead of thinking, “if he just moved a little to the left,” or, “why won’t she touch my cock,” or whatever. Notice what is good and enjoy it.

And let go of your agenda. Instead of focusing on some particular outcome – “I want to ejaculate,” “I want to give her 3 orgasms,” “I wish she would let me do anal,” simply find the pleasure in what you are doing in the moment.

All three of these ways of being are a more conscious approach to life, including your sex life.

When you are IN THE MOMENT, you are present. You are connected to your partner. This is when true intimacy begins and rapture can get a foothold.

Each time you feel yourself wanting something different than what is happening, take a deep breath and let your sexing naturally evolve. Use that play off each other to develop new footpaths to pleasure.

When you feel stress, take a moment to check in with yourself and see if you are resisting what is (and why), if you are judging something negatively that you could turn into a positive, and be willing to deal with or even embrace whatever the outcome might be.

Soon you’ll find yourself feeling more resourceful, more empowered, more appreciative and less stressed out.

Don’t Fight The Feelings.

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