(Step-by-Step Erotic Spanking Directions)
Last week I had a very HOT sex date with my boyfriend where he spanked me and I loved it.
I used to not understand why any woman would want to be spanked. I thought it was abusive.
But as I got more sexually self-confident, I started enjoying playing with dominance and submission.
This boyfriend I’m with now is very macho. He likes to pin me down and kiss me. We like to wrestle too. It’s the most physical sex I’ve ever had.
That’s why recently I asked him if we could have a “spanking sandbox date.” If you’ve been following our antics for a while, you know a Sandbox Date is one of Dr. Patti’s inventions. It’s a sex date where you try something new. There’s more communication because you’re learning together.
Here’s how we did the spanking.
He sat on the bed and I laid across his lap with my butt up in the air in front of him.
I decided to wear very sexy high-heeled shoes, thigh high stockings and a little plaid micro-mini skirt.
First I had him think about going slowly and warming my cheeks up.
I didn’t want hard spanks at first.
He slapped one cheek a few times softly. Then slapped the cheek equally.
He went back and forth from cheek to cheek — spanking high and low.
Each spank got progressively harder and he would stop and rub smooth circles around on my buns to calm the fire from the spanks.
Then he’d spank a little harder, rub smooth circles, spank some more.
The whole time he was spanking me he was telling me how sexy my ass was, how hot and sexy a woman I am, how much he loves making me feel good.
At some point his hands got too slappy and it hurt so he backed off and used more of a diffused blow.
We never used a flogger or a paddle, just his hand. That was enough for me.
What I liked about doing it this way, as a Sandbox Date, was that I got quite a spanking, but it went really slowly and he warmed up my ass and soothed it as he went.
Previously, he’d given me spankings, but they were short… A few slaps here and there…
This was the first time I got a real good, slow, spanking. And I LOVED it.
It was a fun and sexy thing to do together. So if you’ve ever wanted to give or receive a spanking, I highly encourage it.
And if you want to know EXACTLY how to do erotic spanking, you are in luck! My sexpert girlfriend, Gabrielle Moore just released a new book:
Watch the video and get a copy for yourself.
Includes:
- Bedroom Dominance
- Kinky Shades of Play
- Role-Playing
- Sensation Play
- Orgasm Control
Don’t miss page 23 where Gaby lists the Physical Dominance ideas. OMG, I got so turned on reading that page!!!!
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i sure wish you’d think about something on Women Domming sissy or effeminate “men” like me!! …or even Masculine Men…esp. those that have to be “in charge” at work, and need to give up control sometimes at home!! Thanks…