If your partner won’t be intimate with you, in my experience you have five options…
But first, do you know the warning signs of a flatlining relationship?
“She’s given up on sex, distant, and indifferent for no apparent reason. Never acts angry. Just says she has no need. And it’s been 4.5 years.” —Mr. Miserable
The arguments are fine. They’re normal.
Couples squabble. Which means they still care enough to give their opinion.
What you have to watch out for is apathy.
When your lover is no longer interested or no longer gives a darn about your needs…
When they would rather go to sleep than talk about “your” issues…
When they become less and less affectionate…
When you partner’s distant, indifferent, and apathetic — you know for sure there’s a deep problem that’s about to blow…
Don’t wait for that to happen.
In fact, if you notice your partner’s no longer as intimate and passionate as they used to be.
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Don’t wait until worse comes to worst.
I received an email from a reader about how his wife has just given up on him.
Here’s what he said.
DON’T WAIT UNTIL SHE’S GIVEN UP ON YOU
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“Hi Susan,
I’ve done all your tips on a regular if not daily basis our entire marriage.
Changes nothing.
She’s given up on sex, distant, and indifferent for no apparent reason. Never acts angry. She just says she has no need. And it’s been 4.5 years.
I’ve tried talking to her several times. Each time she gets more adamant that things will not change. I love her but feel that things will never change nor does she care that it doesn’t.
I already know. Divorce will be her choice. It’s non-negotiable. Is it worth divorcing over this question though?
And for me staying miserable and divorce are the only options.”
(name withheld)
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Here’s what I said to “Mr. Miserable.”.
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Well, that is unacceptable. Mr. Miserable. Let’s get this fixed so you can go on to have great sex with your wife again.
There are commitments when partners marry. What have you done to explain this to her? Do you know about my program, Revive Her Drive?
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Well then, go to her and let her know that you only have five options:
- Stay miserable in a sexless marriage.
- Cheat on her.
- Get her approval to have sex with other women.
- Go to sex workers.
- Divorce her.
Open your marriage and practice polyamory where you bring in another woman and the three of you “date” but just you and the new woman have sex unless she wants to join you.
If you say that to her, what is your biggest fear?
If she says divorce, so be it.
At least you’ve both come to an agreement.
However, if you want it to work, you have to open your mind to workable compromises and alternatives.
When you let her know that you’ve come to a point where you both have to choose between the options above, then she might budge.
She might realize she still loves you.
And she’ll pitch in and work with you toward healing.
If not, you know it won’t change. So you both should decide to end it and move on to happier, more fulfilling lives.
You’re probably just really pissed and feel totally unloved and rejected right now.
Tim and I have been in the same place you are. I rejected him for sex and he was totally miserable. Revive Her Drive explains how to rekindle your sex life instead of divorcing and starting over.
What if it’s just things you didn’t know? What if what you’ve been doing has actually been driving her away?
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Don’t wait until your relationship comes to a stalemate.
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Note: Ladies, if your guy is the one who evades you for sex, read this article.