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How To Cure Pain During Intercourse

How To Cure Pain During Intercourse


Childbirth and athletics cause vaginal scarring in many women. The damage can make intercourse painful. But they are fixable! 🙂

(Men also suffer from penile scarring and damage. Often a break in the tunica albuginea turns into Peyronie’s Disease over time, bending the penis and causing pain.

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outpatient treatments are able to fix most Peyronie’s these days.)

Here’s an email from Joe asking for my advice about his wife’s vaginal pain. (scroll down)

I have two video resources for you in this email about healing vaginal scarring and tearing:

Below is a video I did on healing vaginal scars at home and another using sexual regenerative techniques using PRP.  You may want to consider PRP, platelet-rich plasma injections put into the scarred or torn or thin areas to regrow and bolster the vaginal tissue.

PRP has healing factors from your own body that bring repairs to the tissue exactly where you need it.

I had a sensitivity at the base of the opening of my vaginal canal that bothered me for years. Dr. Robyn injected PRP into that area during my last O Shot and it is feeling so much better now!

Scars, tears, and even wasting away of vulvar tissue are very, very common.

Watch this video with Dr. Robyn Benson and I explaining how PRP works to fix these issues and increase sexual satisfaction.


And here’s a video with all my excellent recommendations to permanently heal vaginal scarring!


Also, the oils I use are in my Amazon store under Safe Lubrication. The Hobe oil is not organic. It’s ‘health and beauty’ grade. The oil I used to use that was refined organic avocado is no longer carried on Amazon. I am working on finding a good supplier of organic, refined avocado. The Sweet Almond isn’t organic either. The only organic oils are the two coconut oils. Coconut oil is not as thick, but it’s organic. You decide if organic or glide is your top priority.

Here’s the note from Joe…


Hi Susan,

I have a question that maybe you can help with. My wife has a scar from childbirth on the bottom part of her yoni.

Last night during sex (mermaid position I could tell she was uncomfortable by reading her body language so I stopped and said babe I can tell this isn’t working for you.

I was changing my hip position so I was below her yoni and when I was thrusting (slow, deep and deliberate shifting sides on occasion) my penis was hitting the top G area of her vagina. Apparently this was putting pressure on her scar and causing her pain. I had no idea. I was trying to change things up and stimulate her G area with my penis.

I think I understand what she means but was thinking of asking her to show me where the scar is. She said it hurts when I push down on it. I assume she means the underside of my penis as my hips were below her yoni. I’m going to ask her tonight just to make sure. The last thing I wanted was to hurt her. I told her as much last night.

During sex she gave me the dreaded can you finish up soon, but I completely understood afterwards when she explained it was painful. We did finish in a different position which seemed to help her.

My wife isn’t very vocal during sex so I have to read her biofeedback to tell if she is enjoying it or not. This can be a little frustrating. I wish she would just say yeah right there baby or do it like this babe that isn’t working for me.

At least she is communicating with me afterwards to let me know what isn’t working for her. She finally told me about the how I was pushing on her scar when I probed her about why that position might not have worked for her.

When she eventually told me… all I said was” thank you” like you teach us. I will try not to push on your scar again. I also said darn kids and their big heads which made us both laugh. Then I said…but you sure do make beautiful babies though babe! Love you!

I love it. I always tell her thank you when she gives me feedback positive or negative now. Great advice! Anyway have you come across other guys whose wives are having pain from childbirth scars. Any tips or ideas of how I can make it less painful for her? I’m thinking I have to keep my hips above her yoni. It makes sense to me now why her go to position has been missionary. It probably puts less pressure on her scar.” — Joe


Watch this 5-minute video on how to heal vaginal scars once and for all!

As always, if you have any questions, just email me. I do my best to help everyone with all your sexual issues and desires. There is no question too “dumb.” I’m here for you.


One Comment

  1. Hi I try to read all of your notes. Theyr great. No partner at this time. One day soon that will chang, grasping all I can for that day. Thanks again for your info.

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