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Practice my C.A.L.M. Formula this Season of Love

how to build a healthy relationship

“I’m not in the mood tonight. Today was too stressful. Let’s just watch TV, OK?”

STRESS is the number one reason people don’t have more intimacy.

Yet intimacy lowers stress!

But when you’re stressed, you can’t even think about passion. So here is a little workaround that calms and gets you into the mood.

This de-stressing technique is called co-regulation.

When you practice “co-regulation,” you tweak your cerebral wiring and calm each other down when one (or both of you) is freaking out.

CO-REGULATE YOUR PASSION

Co-regulation is a natural part of a secure couple’s daily life—not only in response to distress calls but also in nurturing their connection.

Here’s an example:

Secure couples often touch. Partners may frequently hug at departures and arrivals and check in throughout the day. Even when they are apart, they feel connected.

My fellow YourTango expert Stan Catkin says, “Relationships are like a three-legged race.”

Lasting happiness is based on both partners staying vertical and moving forward together. The basic rule is: “If you fall, I fall.” You cannot leave one partner on the ground.

Here’s my “CALM Formula.” I teach couples to quickly co-regulate and keep their love, intimacy, and passion for each other as healthy and unbreakable as ever.

“CALM” stands for:

 C – Create a Safe Space

 A – Attune To Each Other

 L – Look In Each Other’s Eyes

 M – Melting Hugs

When one of you realizes the need for the “CALM Formula,” tell the other person immediately.

Then, lie down on the bed or couch and escape the madness of daily life. Take a moment of respite together.

Slow your heartbeats down and breathe deeply together.

Look into each other’s eyes and remember that you love one another. The eyes are said to be the windows to a person’s soul.

And give each other a warm, honest, and genuine connection with melting, long, luxurious hugs.

Something so simple can be influential during the most crushing and uncertain times. It can quickly serve as a starting point for couples to stabilize their emotions. 

WORK ON EACH OTHER

Before I close, there is a delicate issue I’d like to bring up. When my husband and I almost divorced because our intimacy had withered, one of the things we did to respark our passion was to commit to it.

The new relationship energy had worn off, and frankly, I’d gotten less enthusiastic about making love as my career took off and our little girl was born.

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Take a stance that treats your relationship as a three-legged race. 

Secure partners know it is in their best interest to find mutual solutions—and respond caringly when a partner is distressed.

A secure couple has no interest in who is right or will win if there’s a difference in needs. Partners work together to arrive at a solution that works for both. 

As in a three-legged race, if one person feels off-balanced, they need to know how to reach out for help in an open, transparent way as soon as possible.

If a distressed partner needs reassurance, the other can quickly respond with co-regulation or comforting verbal messages.

Secure couples STILL DO get triggered, but they have learned how to accept their triggers and quickly ensure safety or repair.

Use my C.A.L.M. Formula next time you feel too stressed to connect with your love.

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All information from Susan Bratton, Personal Life Media, The20, and our collective brands are personal opinions. The statements made within this email/website have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These statements and the products of this company are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. Always seek consultation from your doctor.

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