How To Get The Girl Of Your Dreams

“Most I see are fat, old or bad looking. The hot ones are bitches, etc.”

“Where do you get the hot woman? Most I see are fat, old or bad looking. The hot ones are bitches, etc.”

Did you read the recent article where I said, “Men who have issues email us with a victim mentality, often with a bit of anger… Where women, when they reply, seem to be critical or they complain?”

(This is for men but equally interesting and helpful for single women to get in the minds of some men in the dating pool.)

MAD AT WOMEN?

My point was that what I generally notice in the trend of the tone of emails I get from men is that they harbor a lot of anger at women when they feel powerless.

And first I want to say that I am really, really sorry if you are one of those guys who feels that you are coming from behind in dating and relationships. And I have some advice for you IF you’re willing to take it in.

THE YES SEQUENCE

To set the stage, first read what guys have said to us recently:
(complete transcripts of each letter are below with Sloane’s responses)

✔️ Women are superficial, materialistic, attention seekers who wouldn’t even consider dating some guys because of what they don’t have or are lacking in the woman’s mind.

✔️ Women make that decision (to date us), they hate us.

✔️ Women have many options when it comes to men and dating choices and they ALWAYS pick the one who has the most to offer them (materialistically of course) without even giving others a chance to show they do have great things to offer

✔️ Where do you get the hot woman? Most I see are fat, old or bad looking. The hot ones are bitches, etc.

✔️ I want a program that guarantees to get me the girl I want.

CAN YOU RELATE?

If you can related to any of these men, please keep reading.

First of all it is generally true that women do the picking. This is biology. She has to protect herself from men who won’t protect her and her offspring. Which is why she also seeks financial security.

And you are biologically driven to seek a fertile (designated by what humans find beautiful) mate, which is why many man seek a “hot” woman.

I recently read a horrific article where a guy said, “… banging 5’s, 6’s and 7’s, (or as someone I know likes to call it, “dumpster p*ssy” haha).”

Every vulva (the correct name for vagina) in the world is a beautiful work of art. To call a woman’s sexual organs, “dumpster pussy,” is the work of a seriously nasty woman-hating person.

One guy recently asked me if he just tried to lay fat women would he score more often because they must be desperate?

Look. These are nasty thoughts. Don’t think a woman can’t smell your evil thinking a mile a way. You reap what you sow. A man with a negative mindset is literally driving women away from himself. Women are crossing the street to avoid him. And they are warning their girlfriends about him too.

Know this. You’re biologically driven to implant your penis in vaginas to the point where it makes you guys a bit maniacal.

The point I’m making here is that you have to respect the natural forces of your human wiring… and her human wiring.

Instead of feeling like you have to trick her into bed or coerce her to have sex with you… Or assuming she would rather have a rich tall guy than you… or if she’s pretty she must be a bitch…

TRY THIS INSTEAD

Go with the natural flow of the way the world works.

Women are looking for clean, honest, trustworthy, kind, hard-working men who will take care of her and her children.

If you want to attract a healthy, kind, loving and affectionate woman, you have to send the signals that show her you are a good man. Use the CIA Formula:

THE CIA FORMULA

1. Keep your body clean and groomed, your teeth professionally cleaned and your hands washed.
2. Be a man of integrity, keep your promises, and have a loving heart and help others in need.
3. Have a steady job and ambition.

Clean

Integrity

Ambition

FIND HER ONLINE

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Now read these emails/blogs and tell me if you feel better? You don’t need to feel like an unwanted man. Bring your gifts and loving heart to the world and good women will find YOU.

Full Transcripts
You make sound so easy… too easy in fact, like dates are guaranteed when you ask for one… ya… just go out and do it. Date lots of women guys, yeah right… its very simple for you to say that when you have no idea of mens’ situations and are sitting behind a computer screen.

One thing you fail to mention to your male readers is the part where you actually have to connect with a girl first before you get the date. Then you have to ask her for a date.

And hope for a miracle that she agrees to a date with you.

(Sloane: This is why I suggest The Yes Sequence… so you know what to say when you approach her confidently.)

You also fail to mention how difficult it is at this point since women are superficial, materialistic, attention seekers who wouldn’t even consider dating some guys because of what they don’t have or are lacking in the woman’s mind.

(Sloane: Now you know what women want, a kind, loving, clean, ambitious man of integrity.)

You also fail to mention that women have many options when it comes to men and dating choices and they ALWAYS pick the one who has the most to offer them (materialistically of course) without even giving others a chance to show they do have great things to offer.

Horrible advice Sloane. You should tell men the entire truth instead of only giving what YOU think is the proper advice. Doesn’t work like that in all situations.

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Hey Susan, I need help. I see all your great promotions on how to be a better lover and have better sex and all that great stuff, but I have one problem. I’ve never had a significant other. Ever. So I want a program that guarantees to get me the girl I want, because I know you can do that.

(Sloane: The only way you can guarantee to get the girl you want is to be someone a girl would want. What are you doing to guarantee your own success?)

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Yeah right ! Great info, but where do you get the hot woman? Most I see are fat, old or bad looking. The hot ones are bitches, etc.

(Sloane: They know you’re thinking those mean thoughts. They can tell. They are all avoiding you. Go rethink your victimhood and anger and start being a kind, loving person if you ever want anything to change. Because even if you get a woman, she will discover in very short time the anger that is inside you and she will be gone.)

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Come on now. Tall rich guys are at 20. Us average men under 6′ are at zero. Women make that decision, they hate us. Nothing we can do to change that. Ask women, they think tall guys are cool. They don’t even acknowledge us average men even if we’re taller than they are. You can’t fix that.

So 90% of women want, desire 10% of men. That is reality.

Even all your ads show tall, muscular men with little women —that is what all women want. The fantasy.

When I go on dating websites, no matter how optimistic I sound all I get are sounds of crickets chirping. Maybe the occasional granny with a walker. No woman wants us until they run out of tall guys around the age of 70.

I have read many books saying women should find men they can see “eye to eye” with- for better relationships. Problem is women don’t read em, they don’t care. Not sure who you’re targeting, but I haven’t had a date in over a year. She was shorter than I was, but she spent the last half hour of our date explaining how she was used to tall assholes, so she just had to have another. I showed her the way home.

(Sloane: This is a limiting belief. You are creating your own negative reality. There are women out there who do NOT like tall men. They want men their size because it feels better and they don’t have to crane their necks. Let go of this idea, stand tall and confident and bring love into your heart.)

Please post your comments below the article.

Rework your profile using the techniques my friend Scot McKay outlines in this free workshop he did with me called, Win At Online Dating.