May I please waive my magic wand,
and transform your sex life into one where:
You share those private moments of intimacy when
you find each other in the dark and ask for and
get what you desire, with no shame, just love…
She finally appreciates her body because she
marvels at how incredible you make it FEEL now.
Oh my, THIS is why everyone is so sex-crazed!”
Being touched, feeling sueded skin on skin,
discovering erectile tissue in new places,
the quality of the sensations… intensifying…
When her hand explores you, under the table,
and mindlessly strokes your thigh, because you’re
so physically connected to each other it’s like
you share one nervous system…
And when she climaxes, it’s so satisfying that
peals of laughter erupt from her like a crazy
witchy chicken or when she comes, her scream
sounds like a train is roaring through the room…
The sex is effortless. Sometimes naughty and
playful. Other times you feel so much love
that tears brim in your eyes.
How do you get from where ever you are now…
to this?
If she’s numb.
Avoiding.
Unapproachable.
Angry, even?
That’s a huge chasm to cross.
So many variables.
So much history between you.
The best course of action, though
imperfect (’cause my magic wand isn’t
real), is to follow the four-step plan
I put together for you.
It’s a framework.
Like a new house where you pick
the carpet and tile you like best.
Here are some of the ways you will
assess your particular situation:
There are 9 typical reasons a woman
resists being sexual with her man.
(Read or Listen To: Overcoming Resistance)
If she’s resistant, learn how to get
underneath what’s causing it.
And, is she getting the 4 things a
woman needs to express her sexuality?
(Read/Listen: Masterful Lover MANifesto)
If not, you can start giving them to
her so she’ll light up again.
Are you creating the internal feelings
she needs to feel to desire you?
(Read/Listen: Sustaining Attraction)
You likely gave these to her when
the sex was better and now you’ve
forgotten about them.
She hasn’t.
All of these are fully explained in
Revive Her Drive.
You can literally get started tonight.
With Love,
Susan Bratton