Dr. Patti,
I have ordered the DVD’s from Welcome Consensus and they seem to teach the DO method using Clitoral Stimulation. What is the difference in what they ascribe to and what you are teaching?
How does the 21 day program work? My wife is very very conservative and just watching the DO videos was a turn off to her as she didn’t like watching another woman’s Genitals. So I’m going to be pretty careful ordering anything extra. -Dan
Hi Dan,
I really admire the DO videos. However, what we offer is a 21 day program that brings body, heart, energy and mind into the what I term an “expanded orgasm” which includes the experience of an extended orgasm. This is a very different approach – even if you are giving someone an extended or expanded orgasm. They are not all the same orgasms. They can be quite different in the giving and the receiving.
Warmly,
Patti
Hi Dan,
Susan here.
How did you set up watching the videos with her?
Have you watched any adult sensual education videos before?
Maybe it was a little too much to spring on her at first?
Please thank her for me for taking such a big step to watch the videos.
I know they made an impact on her and she’s still thinking about them.
Also, women’s Yoni’s are so beautiful! See if you can encourage her to appreciate female genitalia by telling her what it is about her pussy that you find appealing and beautiful and magical.
Give her some examples so she starts to appreciate the gorgeous gift of her own genitals. Lead her, Dan.
If you are truly going to learn how to enjoy this beautiful practice together, she will need to stretch her comfort zone and you will need to take it very slowly with her and find out how to make her most comfortable.
The Sensual Practices eBook explains the 21 sandbox dates.
This will slowly stair-step you both in skill and experience.
You will learn how to stroke her, she will learn how to feel it.
These practices will ease you both in slowly.
Expand Her Orgasm Tonight is clitoral stroking like DOing from Welcomed Consensus.
It comes from the same More University lineage.
Dr. Patti has just surrounded the basic stroke plan with all the heart/spirit and sandbox dates strategy that allows couples to enjoy discovering this together in a beautiful way.
And yes, essentially, the strokes are such that you don’t fatigue her clitoris so she can keep coming.
Does that answer your questions?
Let me know how you do.
-Susan
P.S. Have you tried the Touching for Rapture? This is wonderful to start.
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Naturally guys ask me, “you want ME to give HER a 30-minute orgasm?”
“Well, WHAT’S IN IT FOR ME???”
Yesterday I told you how you would be “taking her ride” during a DO Date.
(DO = “Deliberate Orgasm”- that’s an Expanded Orgasm session you have together where you are giving her the clitoral stroking that puts her in the Expanded Orgasm state of escalating orgasmic ecstasy.)
One of the benefits of giving her Expanded Orgasms, is that you get to participate by feeling the lusty, turned-on, orgasmic energy YOU are generating with her.
You also get to put your hands on your gorgeous Yoni and bring it to life in a way that will make her addicted to your touch.
She’ll be moaning and orgasming in your able hands.
It teaches you how to lock-in energetically when you’re stroking her, so you can not only feel her orgasms, but lead her into higher and more delicious sensation.
You will begin to feel her really well and love touching her in a way you never have before.
You will begin feeling her feeling you.
You will feel her feeling you feeling her.
When you learn to put your attention on how you are touching her, you open her in ways her body has craved her whole life.
With love,
Patricia Taylor