Increasing Her Neural Pathways to Pleasure
I call it “clit-centric…”
When I think about sex in our culture today, it’s very focused on stimulating a woman’s clitoris to achieve orgasm.
That’s nice, but it’s such a limited focus when there’s so much more pleasure and sensation to be had if you expand your stimulation to her G-Spot and all the other delicious spots inside her vagina.
The G-Spot is one of those very places that can be easily awakened and sensation increased and further activated by actually creating neural pathways from the brain through touch arousal.
ACTIVATING INCREASED SENSATION
Once those neural pathways are created, she has a stronger and more powerful connection to that part of her body and….ta da!….MORE PLEASURE FOR BOTH OF YOU!
I also find it helpful to tell her exactly WHERE you’re stroking and touching as you do it. The auditory signals help her pinpoint the feeling to feel it faster and make the neural connection better. It accelerates her learning of the sensation she can experience. So if you have good communication skills with your lover, talk to her as you’re touching her.
Once you get her communicating with you, you two can practice what I call “the language of the clit.” You know how every day, she wants to be pleasured a little bit differently? Sometimes harder and faster, sometimes very gently? It’s hard, as a guy, to know what to do!
So using “the language of the clit,” ask your girl to start telling you the story of her desire in the moment, like this:
“Sweetie, my kitty is feeling a bit shy today. She wants to be teased with very gentle sweeping strokes with your whole hand at first, then you can use your finger, right around 2 o’clock once she’s nice and warmed up. Then, can you stroke me for about 20 minutes and get me really warmed up and then, stroke my G-area until I say stop? I really want to relax into it today. Is that ok?”
The great news is that the G-Spot is a highly sensitive and pleasurable zone of erectile tissue that all women have which connects to the urethra and the urethral sponge. It’s as sensitive as her clitoris once you “teach” her to feel the sensation.
The amount of sensation each woman experiences in her G-Spot varies, but the exciting news is that you can awaken the G-Spot through locating it, stimulating it, pleasuring it, and attending to it.
You and your partner can dedicate some focused time and energy getting to know this part of her body.
I awakened my G-Spot only 6 years ago. Prior to that I was vaguely aware that I had one!
I know you can awaken sensation and sensitize areas of your body like the G-Spot because I have experienced this myself and gone on to teach others how to.
SENSITIZING HER G-SPOT
My G-Spot is now so sensitized that I prefer G-Spot stimulation to clitoral stimulation, although why choose one over the other? Both are fantastic together.
The more you stimulate her G-Spot, the more you arouse her lovely juices to squirt, gush, and drip, over and over again!
It’s time to walk down the mental, physical and spiritual path toward the pleasure that is your collective birthright.