Heart-Centered Lovemaking
Bottom line: The more attentive you are to her needs as her lover, the hotter your sex will ultimately be.
Being a red-hot passionate lover is great for hot sex. Remember that women get turned on by emotional connection as well. The more you can be compassionate, loving, present, and emotionally available yourself during lovemaking, the more she will be able to really let her authentic sexual self shine through which will lead to higher arousal and more orgasms for her.
Techniques and skills are great to learn, but keep focused on building intimacy and connection. Breathing together, eye contact and eye-gazing, and communication are great ways to help her feel more connected to you as well as you to her. Putting your hand on her heart while you are stimulating her and gazing into her eyes is a great way to show that you care and give her permission to be seen and loved.
In my opinion, the best lovers I had were the ones who were not scared of intimacy and knew how to make love to me while giving me permission to surrender and feel safe sharing myself with them.
Female ejaculation and G-Spot stimulation can be very emotional experiences and require vulnerability and heart connection for many women. The more attentive you are to her needs as her lover, the hotter your sex will ultimately be. This also helps to build intimacy and trust between you which ripples out into your relationship on many levels.
Building a powerful, deep, loving and strong connection through sex is important, and you will see her open up like a flower and reveal her beauty and authentic erotic energy.
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With love,
Tallulah Sulis