“Goddess Statue, Kathmandu – Patan Durbar Square”
Here is a possible scenario for you and your lover:
The mood is set. There are no interruptions. This night is yours together and you have dedicated this evening for exploring her beautiful pussy and celebrating your love for her.
Start by giving her a full body massage from head to toe. Long, intentional, adoring strokes throughout her whole body. Making sure to pay attention to her feet, inner thighs, her ass and stomach. You are checking in with her gently, asking how it feels and telling her how beautiful she is and specifically complimenting her as you touch her.
You are telling her that all she has to do is simply lay back and receive your touch and take it in. Make sure you are taking deep breaths with her and creating a safe container for her.
After your full body massage, slowly work your way from her stomach and inner thighs to her beautiful pussy. Compliment it lovingly. Start massaging her pubic mound and making connection to her heart with the other hand. Gaze into her eyes lovingly, if she has her eyes open, and connect with her and remember to take deep breaths and sighs to release any tension in either of your bodies. Make sure you are sitting astride her comfortably with lots of pillows, and she is totally comfortable and at ease.
Massage her outer labia, her inner labia and use a nice lube to glide over her pussy in long juicy strokes.
Ever so slowly and intentionally start massaging her clitoris making sure you are checking in with her regarding the pressure, speed and location that feels best to her. Glide your fingers very slowly from the bottom of her vagina at her perineum, all the way up in between her inner labia up to her clit. As one hand is reaching the clit, the other hand is starting to glide up again as if you are playing the harp.
Find a slow and very consistent rhythm once you find the right part of her clit and the right pressure. Do not veer off this consistent, hypnotic pattern. Go as slow as you can so she can build up to intense arousal. Her hunger for more will help her get wetter and wetter. Notice as she gets engorged and responsive to your touch. If you are not sure how she’s doing, feel free to check in with her and ask.
Stay with that same stroke and be as consistent as possible, keeping your arm relaxed. At a certain point, if she desires it, you can introduce a finger inside of her, making sure you are using plenty of lube and going deliciously slow. Locate the spongy mound with ridges that is her G-Spot, and go just behind it with pressure that feels right for her. Start slowly, and slowly add more pressure over time, say 10 minutes. Remember, some women like a milking movement, others like sliding sensations – see what your woman likes today. You can do the cum hither motion with your finger curled up, circles, back and forth, tapping, vibrating or using a toy if preferred.
Once you find the right speed, pressure and stroke stay with it consistently and slowly build your pressure with her G-Spot and go slightly faster with the consistent clit stroke. This consistency will help her to focus on building her orgasm as well as building her hunger for more. Take your time with your consistent strokes and ever so slowly increase your pressure on her G-Spot and speed on her clit. Keep pillows under your elbow if your arm is getting tired and make sure you’re not in any physical discomfort or pain. Relax your shoulders and remember to breathe. Take any direction from her that is needed. Give her compliments while you are doing this and loving praises.
After you have increased your pressure and speed quite a bit, you might notice that she is getting near climax and very aroused. Now is the time to give her lots of permission to let go, bear down and push out if she needs to. In your excited state and hers , make sure you still stay consistent in your speed while stimulating her clit. If you feel her starting to push out, you’ll feel it on your finger and you might want to try stimulating the front of her G-Spot sponge near or on the urethral opening.
Give her encouragement, permission and praises. Let her know she can totally let go and surrender. The intensity has been building and she is probably ready to climax and possibly even ejaculate. Work with experimenting between firm pressure behind her G-Spot and lighter pressure on the front of her sponge and urethral opening. You can start rubbing her urethra vigorously if she likes that, while staying consistent with clitoral stimulation.
If she has a roaring climax and has permission to let it go, she might just ejaculate everywhere. Keep encouraging her to come more and more and keep releasing. Chances are she might want to come immediately after she has just climaxed, so keep going after you check in with her. She will be delighted that you want to keep going with her. For many women, the first climax takes the longest, and the subsequent orgasms can come very soon after because she is already so aroused, engorged and turned on.
When she has had her fill of orgasms remember to thank her, cradle her, hold her, kiss her, compliment her, and make connection with her heart. Make sure she feels held, nurtured and taken care of by you, and most likely she’ll want to jump your bones and give you the world because she is so turned on, happy, and feeling completely ecstatic!
Photo Credits:
rubber bullets
With love,
Tallulah Sulis