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Two DVDs That Might Get You Laid

I seldom watch pornography. It doesn’t move me. I think for most women, it’s a little overwhelming, intimidating and frankly, raunchy.

Recently, Kink.com launched a new movie (I was invited to the opening by a friend who is a big deal journalist for a major newspaper) called “An Open Invitation: A Real Swinger’s Party in San Francisco.”

I have been to SF sex parties (yes, I promise I’ll tell you about them) and knew the guy who produced the party that was featured in this movie. So I thought I might know some people at the launch event.

Much to my surprise, this is an entertaining movie. Now I must tell you, it’s definitely full of fucking, so your wife or lover might not appreciate it. And the scenes with the actual party are totally fake. It’s not how it really is at sex parties in real life — at least the ones I go to here in SF.

The characters are engaging and the sex is hot and not raunchy. It’s fantasy, not reality. But you and your gal might enjoy checking it out.

Here’s a link to the website. An Open Invitation.

What I recommend you do watch with your lover or wife is the Sinclair Institute Better Sex series.

These videos were really the first non-porn sexual education content I ever watched. Hubby bought them for me and asked if I’d be willing to watch them. I said, hesitantly, yes. And it did two things. First, I got a little turned on and started thinking that in fact sex might not be such a horrible proposition… I was completely shut down then. Secondly, I saw the range of styles of different couples having sex and realized that if we expanded our description of what sex looked like to our marriage, there were some “on ramp” activities that I would be interested in.

At the time, my man was not very good at fucking. So I didn’t have much incentive to have sex with him. These videos gave him more moves, turned me on and got us at least trying again.

Over the last few years, since we’ve been focused on both becoming better lovers, and sharpening our skills and awakening our sensations, I always think back to these Better Sex videos as the first step in breaking down the walls that had formed between us physically.

The videos are safe to show your wife and they are sexy and sweet. They are “educational,” so you shouldn’t get in too much trouble. 😉

Maybe this can work for you? If so, let me know.

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