Porn Star Sex Life is charming, funny and a little dirty. My overall recommendation is:
- Buy it if you watch porn so you can be very clear about what is done purely for filming versus what appropriate, realistic advanced sexual behaviors are.
- Buy it if you like edgy sexual experiences, as the bulk of the conversation focuses on things like slapping, choking, anal play and other things you see in porn that you might like to do correctly and safely with pleasure in the privacy of your own home.
- Buy it for the pure entertainment of watching Ryan, Jade and Justine talk about and demonstrate their sex lives as porn stars. These are sexually empowered women who have an amazing amount of personal experience to share.
- Buy it to watch with your lover as it will open up a level of conversation that heretofore might have felt unsafe between you two.
- Don’t buy it if you are conservative, don’t want to hear colloquial language or if you are hoping these three girls will have sex in the program. They keep those pretty undies on the whole time.
Here’s an overview of what’s inside.
First of all, Ryan Keely, Justine Joli and Jade Vixen are adorable! I noticed myself smiling throughout the whole video series. They keep getting each other turned-on when they do their demos. It’s just a delight to see women who fully embrace their sensuality and live in their turn-on.
Secondly, it’s video you can share with your lover. It’s not pornography, it’s timely sex education by sexy porn stars. It’s FUN and entertaining as well as being educational.
Since the teachings are given by adult stars, Ryan, Justine and Jade spend a considerable amount of time demystifying why sex is done the way it is for filming porn. I found that particular part practical and fascinating.
There are 3 hours of video in 2 modules plus a bonus.
Modules 1-5 include:
Touching and Kissing
Fingering, How to Find and Touch the Clitoris
Oral Sex Techniques
Cupping Hand Moves that Engorge Her
Fisting and Squirting
I didn’t completely agree with the advice in this segment about female ejaculation. The girls say to fill her up with all your fingers and press on her bladder when you are trying to get her to squirt.
I would not recommend you put your hand inside her nor press on her bladder. If you want to learn how to help a woman ejaculate or to ejaculate yourself if you are a woman, please familiarize yourself with Tallulah Sulis’ “Squirt Your Heart Out” or “Female Liquid Orgasm” programs. Tallulah gives away excellent free advice and her system is solid and complete and based on countless live workshops with singles and couples who graciously, successfully learn to ejaculating without any fisting or bladder pressing.
As an “ejaculator” myself, I know women like a range of feelings and hand movements and it’s best to get fully informed about all the techniques, including couples-based exercises you can do together to help her unleash her feminine waters.
Plus, fisting is an advanced sexual preference. I felt that Ryan, Justine and Jade were a little too cavalier about this, like it’s an everyday thing. That’s where getting your sex advice and techniques only from porn stars is simply a bad idea.
You must take any single piece of advice with a grain of salt and follow many sex experts if you want to be a truly wise lover.
That being said, I am one of the world’s biggest proponents of fingering and manual genital stroking and massage. So I am not against fisting, but you must start SMALL.
Just try Expanded Orgasm genital stroking first, then move toward G-Area massage for ejaculatory orgasms. If she really likes a full feeling in her Yoni, she might then be a candidate for fisting, but only when she’s ready and wants it and you know what to do. Before you even consider fisting a woman, work your way up to two or three fingers over an hour or so first. The good news is, Porn Star Sex Life teaches you how to do it well and their advice is excellent with regard to technique.
Again, the information is solely the opinion of three women. Three porn stars who have a LOT of experience, but their personal opinions, nonetheless.
And… my favorite part and worth the price of admission:
Things You’ll See On Porn That You Just Should NOT Do!
These women can tell when a guy has been watching too much porn and believes what he sees on a movie is reality!
The things they call out as being for porn only, not real life include:
“Standing Side Mish”
“Pile Driver”
Spitting As Lubrication
Degrading Language
Ejaculatory Facials (coming on her anywhere without asking first is a no-no)
Unsanitary Ass Play
The conversation about the preparation an adult star uses before a scene with anal play is fascinating. An enema with a gallon of water, no eating for 12 hours prior, a series of gradually larger butt plugs that stretch you out before the scene, lube inserted before the cameras roll and more. Very eye opening and a little gross, it explains why we see what we see if we watch porn.
Module 6-10 includes:
Favorite Porn Star Sex Positions
Bringing the Missionary aka “Mish” position back!
All three girls agree, Missionary Position is their favorite intercourse position. Ryan gives a series of options for saving your back and shoulders and using your hip flexors to make sure you are sliding your penis across her G-Area for maximum pleasure.
Not only am I a “Mish” devotée myself, I loved watching them illustrate the options on each other.
Ryan, Justine and Jade also give some great position adjustments for Doggie Style intercourse.
Ryan calls it, “Romantical Doggy Style.”
Romantical?
OK, Ryan. That’s not a real word, but hey, you are an adorable porn star. I’ll give you “Romantical.” Arf!
Anal and “Dirty”Sex
There are some funny as hell comments throughout Porn Star Sex Life including,
“My little brown eye winks and I want something in it.” — Justine.
This is the most practical and detailed anal sex advice I’ve seen anywhere in one place other than Tristan Taormino’s work. This section may include some of the best advice in the whole program. Some of it is pretty specific – “don’t eat fruit with seeds, you’ll never get it rinsed out.” Hmmmm… will I ever look at a raspberry again the same way now?
And who knew there were “lube shooters” you could stick up your butt?
I’m telling you, this is sexutainment at its best!
Menstrual Sex
Low lights and baby wipes maximize the amount of sex you have.
“Sex is messy, get used to it.” — Ryan
Dirty, Rough Sex
Jade perks up and does a hair pulling demo. She is also a finger-nail-scratcher and likes to dig her 5″ heels into her lover.
OK, Jade. Enter the dragon, eh?
Erotic Choking
The girls do a demo of erotic asphyxiation. Cutting off oxygen and blood flow to the brain are found by some to enhance orgasm. It’s dangerous. Most people are not into it. They even mention that David Carradine died from auto-erotic asphyxiation. I would recommend you just don’t do it.
You can see by now that Porn Star Sex Life openly discusses many advanced techniques, some of which hail from Kinky or BDSM-play. Luckily, you can watch this WITH your lover and see what you two are interested in trying together.
Slapping and Spanking
Face, ass and “tittie” slapping are discussed. Light slapping, just enough to sensitize the skin is demonstrated.
Ryan does an excellent job throughout the video series talking about communicating boundaries and asking permission FIRST before ever trying anything like this.
Maintaining an Erection
“Let’s face it, I’m not interested in your penis if it’s not hard.” — Ryan
The best advice I’ve ever watched for maintaining an erection with a condom on is right here in Porn Star Sex Life.
Safe Sex
The girls have a fascinating conversation about how they keep themselves safe and healthy being in the porn industry.
Have you seen my free Reality-Based Safe Sex Guide, (click here)? The Eliza Test is accurate within a month. PCR DNA tests can tell you if you have been exposed within the last 7 days.
“Wear a fucking condom and get tested every month.” — Ryan
True ‘dat, Ryan.
(Here’s a home test kit you can order online. Buy two and keep one in your medicine cabinet if you have multiple sex partners.)
Modules 11-12 are bonus material – mostly questions the girls answer with more practical advice.
“Baby wipes and low lights” are great pointers. Sounds like sumptin’ Grannie might have said… if she was a porn star. More practicality from women who are always packing lube and wipes.
This is contemporary wisdom for today’s porn-influenced society.
I think next I’ll review a Tantric Sex program, because I feel a little calloused from all this very naughty sex conversation. 😉
Having a balance of skills, from hard-core sexual scenarios where you are slapping, having anal sex, coming on each other mixed with loving, sweet, gentle, sensual lovemaking moments where you cherish each other gives a couple a wide palette of sexual and sensual experiences for their relationship.
Keeps it spicy too.
I learned a lot from this series and hope the Up Your Attraction folks put it out on DVD soon too. It would even more fun to lie in bed naked, eating popcorn off each other, discussing this series than sitting in front of my computer consuming the practical knowledge so adorably, sexily distilled by these three hottie women.
Porn Star Sex Life is fun and entertaining. I wouldn’t consider it a bible of sexual techniques nor is it a complete compilation of excellence in any category.
It is a fun romp.
And I love a fun romp.
Especially with three super hotties!
I highly recommend
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Pass me the popcorn please, and…
Let’s bring back The Mish!
