Ready to have waaaay more panties-hanging-from-the-ceiling-fan sex?
Your desire to improve and increase the intimacy and sensuality in your sex life is about to be rewarded with mind-blowing advice.
You and your lover deserve to have can’t-get-you-fast-enough-can’t-get-enough-of-you sex — and these excerpts from the Seduction Summit interview series that is part of Revive Her Drive, will give you a tantalizing taste of exactly how to get what you are craving.
Your woman’s ability to go for her turn-on and meet you in your arousal results in nights of hot, steamy sex together. If she can release her inner slut, if she can awaken her sensual goddess, if she can be a sexy woman who loves to have orgasm after orgasm, if she can get so turned-on she craves your manhood, you will have an amazing sex life.
It’s getting her to that point of abandon that takes knowledge.
Knowledge of your woman’s anatomy, of her bio-chemistry, of her past experiences, and of where she is emotionally… with everything in her life!
You also need to know how to be a man, how to make intimacy safe for her, how to “take over” her nervous system in a way that she trusts, how to own the vision of your sexual potential together.
Ready for me to take you to the moon, darling?
Let’s go, baby!
There’s often a sense of bewilderment from the man in a relationship when sex fizzles…
- Why isn’t she interested in me anymore?
- Since we had kids, she doesn’t want to have sex.
- She’s frigid.
- Maybe she’s secretly a lesbian and doesn’t want me anymore.
- She’s going through menopause/physical issues/stress at work/you name it and isn’t interested in sex.
- She won’t talk about it.
- She only likes “vanilla” sex.
- She just doesn’t want as much sex as I do.
There are a million reasons men justify the lack of interest in their partners.
Stop worrying and simply recognize that you just need the sexual SKILLS to arouse her.
Psychologically, she needs her man to own the sexual relationship. In order for her to surrender, to feel the safety and security it takes for her to get into her turn-on, she must TRUST you in numerous ways. That trust can be created in a single night and for a lifetime.
As David Shade says so perfectly, “The masterful lover understands that female sexuality is entirely mental and that women need four things:
- One, to feel special and appreciated.
- Two, to feel a deep emotional connection to her man.
- Three, to feel feminine, beautiful and sexy.
- And four, to have hot passionate sex.
If you look at any divorce or break up, the woman left because she was not getting one or more of these four things.
The three guiding themes in the Surrender & Trust eBook are Leadership, Opening Her and Trust:
- Leadership, how to exhibit dominance appropriately, being the voice of authority;
- Doing the right things so she trusts you and can surrender to her sexual pleasure; and
- Opening and transporting her heart, mind and body to new levels of ecstasy.
I have hand-selected twelve sexuality, relationship and masculinity experts who will weave the three guiding themes throughout sixteen unique concepts that focus specifically on how you can create the safety and trust a woman seeks to allow herself to go-over-the-edge and surrender to her sexual self (and you!).
I challenged each expert to deliver their latest thinking and to bring forward smart techniques for immediate and positive results that will bring you and your partner lasting pleasure.
These techniques are taken from the Seduction Summit, a body of work loaded to bursting with the latest thinking from the world’s leading experts, and they are powerful ideas you can apply tonight to step up into your masculinity, allowing her to be her ultimate feminine, sexy woman for you.
The sixteen unique concepts contained herein barely scratch the surface of the impressive wisdom contained in the full Seduction Summit interview series, however this tasty appetizer serves to pique whet your appetite for the full-course meal.
There’s no replacement for hearing and/or reading each complete interview in context via the Seduction Summit program, but here is a potent sampling of the quality of information that was inspired in this landmark series.
Enjoy the following wisdom and make a change.
Enrolling Her In Pleasure That Becomes Erotic
Here’s a level-set on the concept of seduction. It’s not about “gettin’ laid,” it’s about…
Susan Bratton: How do you define seduction?
Dr. Patti Taylor: Okay, well lets define what it means “to seduce,” because I think a lot of men, women maybe too, have the idea that seduction is the art of laying a trap and hoping a woman will fall into it, and then you get to make love or get laid.
That’s not how I define seduction…
Susan Bratton: A lot of people think seduction is “I’m going to seduce her to get sex,” when seduction is a much wider palette of pleasure in your perspective, correct?
Dr. Patti Taylor: That’s true. And it’s a lot easier to talk a woman into going home with you after she’s had a number of drinks, BUT the ‘master seducer,’ whether they’re single or married or first time or lifetime, has a whole range of skills at his beck and call other than liquor. The way I define seduction is actually a much broader and more powerful definition. When a man seduces he is enrolling a woman and heading in the direction of more pleasure. This pleasure can become erotic.
Truth: Women Are Highly Sexual Creatures
Truer words were never spoken. I challenge you, men, to test David Shade’s beliefs here. What do you have to lose? Can you be a true lover of a sexually expressed woman? Are you man enough?
David Shade: We’ll talk about the general majority of situations that men will run into. A masterful lover sees the truth that women are highly sexual creatures. Women crave to be ruthlessly sexually expressive. But she cannot initiate because one, she is sexually submissive, and two, it would define her as a slut. Now we’re talking about the general majority of cases. And because a woman can’t find a man who’s capable of leading her, it is infinitely frustrating. Women often find themselves settling for a cheating self-absorbed inconsiderate jerk bad boy who leads her sexually because she is addicted to the fulfillment of her sexual desires. She can’t find an honest man who’s capable of doing that for her. Women need to have a man who is comfortable with her sexuality but the only one she can find who appears to be comfortable with her sexuality is the bad boy. But in actuality he has the Madonna-Whore complex.
Now the masterful lover empathizes with women, is fascinated by women, believes in women and genuinely likes women. He adores everything that defines a woman as a woman. He derives no greater pleasure than pleasing his woman. Now this might all sound very supplicating or making a man feminine, but that is the farthest thing from the truth. Actually women adore the masculinity in a man. A man doesn’t need to know the difference between a clutch and a handbag, that’s the woman’s job. But he does need to believe in women and genuinely like women. There are a lot of men who say they love women, but they don’t really like women.
Strong women want you to take control as much as weak women do, perhaps even more. Are you confident enough and knowledgeable enough about her anatomy to hold the vision for your lovemaking together? Can you set the scene and shepherd her through a wild session of lovemaking?
With Love,
Susan Bratton