Bust out the lube, Baby!
It’s Naughty Fingers Test Drive Night!
I’m feeling a moment of compassion and empathy about your situation today.
Is your partner open to experimentation?
A lot of you write to Dr. Patti, Susan, Tallulah and I about your struggles to get your woman to open up to you sensually.
Vulnerability is the first step in having the kind of sexual relationship where you get to try new things so you keep getting better with each other.
Vulnerability creates trust.
Trust enables her surrender.
How are YOU making it “safe” for your partner to be a beginner, to “not know” things, to try and then be OK to NOT like something, to be “bad” at a new technique?
The first time I got out a mirror and watched hubby stroke my genitals with his fingers, I was about 46 years old.
Proof that it’s never too late!
Is your lover willing to have “erotic play dates” to learn new techniques with you?
When I thought about you this morning in context of how Susan, Dr. Patti, Tallulah and I are always encouraging you to try an Expanded Orgasm “practice,” I realized that for YOU, depending on the vulnerability, trust and surrender in your relationship, a weekly sensual massage practice may just not be “where you are at” YET as a couple.
You CAN have the kind of sexual connection where you both get a lot of pleasure from experimentation.
Find out how you both need it to be to feel safe trying new techniques and start supporting each other. Talk about this.
If your woman isn’t ready for an orgasmic fingering practice like Dr. Patti’s “Expanded Orgasm,” http://expandherorgasmtonight.com consider starting with Gabrielle Moore’s NEW, introductory program, “Naughty Fingers.”
I just got a sneak peek at Naughty Fingers and it’s an impressive primer that covers everything from getting your woman comfortable with fingering to starting on the outside and working your way in.
True to form, Gabby Moore’s new book + audiobook is a bona fide encyclopedia of fingering techniques, anatomy details and prepping strategies.
Having a collection of fingering strokes you can use like a set of tools can be STAGGERINGLY VALUABLE in giving your woman countless hours of pleasure, that will make intercourse even more pleasurable for you both.
That’s why I eagerly devour any “fingering” instruction that comes from a respectable source like Gabrielle Moore.
I have plans for an erotic play date with hubby and we’re going to go through Naughty Fingers to try all the fingering moves.
“Bust out the lube, baby!”
“It’s Naughty Fingers Test Drive Night!”
Having Erotic Play Dates together provides danger, novelty and variety – three things women crave in a sexual relationship.
A man who knows his woman’s Yoni inside and out. . .
A man who knows how to find and deliver ever-increasing pleasurable sensations. . .
A man who knows how to stroke his woman and engorge her whole genital area so she feels so much more sensation. . .
A man who delights in the touch, feel and responsiveness of his woman’s whole pelvic area – from stomach to labia to cheeks to mons so she opens like a flower. . .
These are the men who get most of the sensual action.
Are YOU one of these men?
Just as you love to have two hands firmly on your member, lovingly stroked. So do we women, love two experienced hands on us.
If you are not 1000% confident you know all of the places to stroke, all of the ways to finger, how to have her enjoy multiple orgasms just with your hands, then you are in for a treat!
Gabby Moore has made it so easy to become quickly and massively proficient with your hands.
And I promise, your fingers are a slippery slope to all the great sex you can handle.
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