Eye-opening doesn’t begin to describe what these men divulged to me about the sad state of their sex lives.
I wanted to know if it was possible to systematize a ‘sex life turn-around plan’ that any man could use with any woman.
After analyzing results from a sexual satisfaction survey of 776 men, conducting intimate one-on-one interviews with 40 coupled men and seeking advice from the dozen authorities who have helped three quarters of a million people in 69 countries around the world…
I found 4 main reasons men were dissatisfied with their sex life and created “The BlueBall Diaries.”
Jaw dropping.
Gut wrenching.
These stories filled me with anguish: (You know I feel for you guys, big time.)
– Bill’s worst fear is that soon she’s only going to let him have sex during commercial breaks.
– The last time Ivan had sex was when they conceived his now four-year-old son.
– Zane wrote, “I am Soooo Horny for Her Passion, Especially How she use to be……I Masturbate Constantly to temporarily satisfy MY EROTIC LUST!!!!!”
– Randy sadly decided Natalie must be asexual. The rejection he feels from that is, “the most damning element of my life. . . “
– Jose loved that they had sex everyday at first. Now Carla sleeps with him once a month if he’s “lucky.”
– Raj’s greatest frustration is that Reena really genuinely doesn’t seem to care about sex, and it doesn’t bother her to go without. He wished she was having an affair, because that meant there was still hope for him.
– Lauren would begrudgingly let Robert slip into her, from the side. No kissing. No oral. She acted impatient for Rob to “get it over with.” It was incredibly boring and it grated on him that he had to BEG just to get sex that was unfulfilling.
– Mark is cheating with no-strings-attached sex he finds online (he hates that this feels like the only thing he can do)…
– Jon tiptoes on eggshells around his wife about sex because of a horrible past trauma…
– Tai says, “I have not had sex with anybody except Rosy Palm and her five sisters for over 20 years. all my parts work. I am about to go round the bend. I am horny all the time. I have been married to the same woman for 42 years. HELP!!”
– Ann had stopped initiating entirely. “I thought this just happened to women after they had kids?” Sex felt robotic… a revolting combination of disappointment and frustration on the rare occasion she’d let Stan get intimate.
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With Love,
Susan Bratton