If you want every stroke, every touch, every lick to feel exquisite to her, you must spend time engorging her whole vulva before you enter her.
This image above illustrates the outer areas of her genital area that respond very well to stroking for engorgement.
Don’t let her rush you.
Take your time.
Use organic oil, like avocado or coconut, to warm up her skin and the tissue under her skin so that you bring blood to her whole outer area including the parts with pubic hair which are her mons venus and her outer labia.
Also stroke the area where her thighs meet her torso.
This is a very sensual area for women.
Stroke all the way down around the lower section of her vulva, between the perineum and her vagina.
Tell her what you are doing just before you do it, “Now I’m running my hand down this soft skin at the bottom of your vaginal opening, enjoying how springy the skin feels on my fingertips.”
Massage the part of her butt that blends into her vulva and stroke all the way down to her sits bones.
If she’ll let you, put her on her tummy on some pillows and massage her butt until it’s soft and sensitive.
Roll her over and give her a tummy massage.
Stroke her thighs with long, smooth flat-palm strokes.
Kiss her eyelids, her cheeks. Stroke her cheek with the back of your fingers.
Look into her eyes.
Tell her what you find most beautiful about her.
Cup her mons venus with your hand and hold it there like a precious treasure as you kiss her. It will
warm to your hand and engorge further – the light pressure will ground her and make her feel safe
in your arms.
Spend time giving her love and affection.
Every moment of your life that you have the opportunity to connect in heart and body with another human is precious.
You will find that by stroking a wider area of her body, by covering more ground with your touch, that her whole sexual experience with you will be enlivened.
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