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How To Give Her Orgasms From Intercourse

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Last night I had dinner with my friends Ray and Lenore and the conversation (as it does when you party with a sex educator) turned to sex.

Lenore can’t have orgasms from intercourse. Penetration doesn’t get her off. This is VERY common and creates a situation where sex just isn’t that good for her, so she wants less and less over time.

But I have a solution for you! Read on…


As we sat by the fire after dinner, Lenore shared with us that “70% of the time” she has intercourse with Ray just to keep him from being too cranky to live with.

Though they laughed about it with us, I know that there is a deep, underlying pain that comes with giving more than she’s getting. That’s mercy sex.

When a wife has sex with a husband and doesn’t herself have an orgasm, it takes its toll on her libido, her satisfaction and her sexual confidence.

And for those husbands whose wives submit to mercy sex, it’s often a living hell for them.

Men live to give their women incredible pleasure. It’s wired into you. If you satisfy her, she will willingly come back.

This is why men love it when the woman initiates or asks for sex. Then he knows she desires him.

But when she has sex out of duty, or to keep him from being cranky, there’s a lot of potential pleasure left on the table.

Don’t get me wrong. It’s NOT anyone’s fault. The wives who give their men consistent intercourse are wonderful, caring, attentive wives.

And often wives won’t LET their husbands have enough access to them to to help them learn how to have vaginal orgasms through intercourse.

So you end up masturbating inside her, instead of it being a two-way pleasure experience.

THIS SUCKS. It sucks for you. It sucks for her. And countless couples get caught in a habit that is unrewarding and think, “this is just how it is with us.”

Listen, 99.99% of women CAN orgasm from intercourse, IF conditions are right.


And the #1 condition is ENGORGEMENT.

Once a woman’s genitals are ripe and full of blood from stroking, licking and rubbing, you could be a complete klutz and she’d probably have an orgasm.

It’s putting the time into foreplay, into massaging her vulva, her clitoris, up in her vagina — both her perineal and urethral (G-Spot) sponges — as well as getting her relaxed and turned on with sexy talk and kissing, breast play and overall sensual touching.

The best part about getting a woman engorged is that it builds on itself, like working out a muscle.

The more you engorge her, the easier it is to get her engorged.

The more you engorge her, the faster she gets aroused each time.

The more you engorge her, the more engorged she stays between lovemaking sessions.

Engorgement builds on itself. This is one of the foundations of the upward pleasure spiral, where sex just keeps getting better.


The best way to help your woman have intercourse from penetration is to get her engorged and then do what my friend Sheri Winston calls, “Orgasmic Cross Training.”

Here is a video where I asked Sheri to describe how to do Orgasmic Cross Training.

Start with engorgement by learning from our program, Expand Her Orgasm Tonight.

Expand Her Orgasm Tonight <=== #1 For Fast Engorgement Techniques

Once you have the ability to give her incredible clitoral orgasms with a fully engorged pussy, you can start the cross training.

Don’t skip steps, do do bird.

I know you want to accelerate, skip ahead, get to your goal.

If you skip steps it will TAKE longer and you will ANNOY her.

Do the work. It’s freakin’ fun!

Step #1 – Get Expand Her Orgasm Tonight and watch the stroking and engorgement videos.

Step #2 – Practice the strokes and engorge your lady’s bits

Step #3 – Get her coming in multiple orgasms from the clitoral stroking and engorgement

Step #4 – Start cross training [watch the video above] by coming her with your Expanded Orgasm strokes while your penis is inside her


She will come from intercourse.

This is EXACTLY what Tim did for me. At 49 years old I finally had my first orgasms from penetration.

Every woman can come from intercourse.

9 Responses

  1. Why you did not provided by any video for any subject … ??? …
    Make it complete, so that every body will interested accordingly.

  2. Why is it that my guy can not cum!! We didnt have sex for 8 month’s due to being out of State for work… I can give him a great blow job and then be on top of him and 7-8 orgasm and he still can not cum!!!

  3. I am so happy I have come across this website.

    So informative and avoids basic surface details which a lot of site on the internet has.

    I am 22 and my partner has been trying hard to please me in the bedroom but he is losing motivation because he thinks nothing works.

    I was only be able to orgasm through watching internet porn and using a vibrator. I noticed I was losing sensation in my clit and nipples as a result of excessive vibrator use.
    Gradually I started using my fingers but still watching porn. Then, I moved from using internet porn to imagining the scenes I had seen online whilst using my fingers.
    Currently I am at the stage of imagining me being the women in some of the scenes, and even purely imaging me being the receiver of pleasure whereas before, I focused on being the giver of pleasure.

    When we had intercourse recently, I played out these fantasies(me being the receiver of pleasure) in my mind whilst he was orally pleasuring me. Its the closest to climax I have ever been as a result of having a man pleasuring me physically. I had a clit erection, which is rare. As he penetrated me, I felt great sensual, erotic, stimulation when he thrusted in and out of me which I had never felt before. In the past it felt like my partners were just “masturbating inside of me” I can only feel them pass in and out my walls with pressure and banging. Its shocking that I actually didn’t know any better. I thought that’s all sex could ever feel like. Boy was I wrong! The experience sure made me think I never REALLY had sex before that night.

    This new found sensitivity might also be because I have been engaging in mix of vigorous pelvic floor training programme’s such as Kegelmaster 2000 (currently I am on level 12) Kim Anami’s vaginal Kung-fu and Ben Wa balls. Daily. But mind needs to connect with body and spirit to be able to reach the depths of sensual pleasure and orgasm, I suppose.

    Despite withstanding child sexual abuse, family and religious shaming and me shaming myself. I am learning to love my body and vagina and not be ashamed of it. Accept that I am good enough to receive pleasure. And that I am desirable. I am more motivated than ever to learn about my anatomy than ever before. The Best is yet to come. I know I am capable of orgasm if I train my mind and body the right way.

    Thanks a lot for your helpful insight Susan, you and Cherri have a great energy about you which I love, very feminine and subtly seductive. I am looking forwards to reading Cherri’s book ‘Womens anatomy of arousal’ I have it in my amazon basket and market down on

    Peace and love

  4. “you end up masturbating inside her, instead of it being a two-way pleasure experience.”

    This is very insightful. It speaks volumes about the nature of some sexual relationships.

    I’ll be thinking about this one for a while. Thanks

  5. foreplay ,arouse her by talking . penetrate her whens she asks , position side to side face to face with short penetration which helps for longer time. if she is ready to come she will come with excellent pleasure. if she trained for this way she will come with every intercourse.

  6. Mam,
    Always very informative.Thanks.
    But here in India sex is taboo.
    finding a woman for this kind of willingness is difficult.
    Do help to find one.

  7. in this part of the world africa we go for fingering and oral sex and we don t fuck the women unless she beg to have it in . our women do com and com so easy when they ask—– please fuck me—

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