“I’m an older guy, 61 and want to date 40 year old woman.”
First of all, I don’t think a 61 year old is an “older guy.” It’s middle age these days if you keep yourself healthy.
All those 50 year old women who finally left their first husbands when their kids went to college would be damned glad to get a sexy sixty.
That being said, a lot of the 50 year olds need some major sexual repair from years of crappy sex.
The forty year olds still remember the hot sex of their 30s and might be happy with a sexy sixty…
The only way to find out is to to TRY. Just don’t overlook the 50s. A LOT of my girlfriends in their 50s are having the best sex of their lives… so far!
Rob of SF asks me:
“Susan, as a older guy 61 and in shape with a flat belly and a strong libido, what is your advice on attracting women in the mid to late 40’s I have been on over 50’s dating sites and find my followers are in their 60’s to 80’s.” –Rob, San Francisco
Scroll down for my advice.
DATE 40 YEAR OLDS
Hi Rob,
I suggest Dating Younger Women With Dignity by my friend, Adam Gilad.

Adam will tell you exactly what to write in online ads to attract the kind of women you seek.
He’s my personal friend and he’s really, REALLY good at this.
The top three ways to meet women are:
- Introductions through friends
- Taking classes in areas of interest
- Online dating
Make them all work for you!
Thanks for asking.
There are women out there dying for a guy to ask them out.
61 is YOUNG and men in their sixties make the best lovers because they combine patience and experience.
How fun!
Go find some women who appreciate you for exactly who you are right now.
Dating younger women with dignity will save you LOADS of time. This is a great program and makes it VERY EASY to actually get replies from women on dating sites who would actually want to go out with you.
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