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How To Ask Your Partner To Get Naked

Feminine Perfection: Beautiful Woman

Fondling, sensual massage, snuggling, caresses, and skin-to-skin contact is yours to enjoy.

“Let’s get naked!”

Go ahead, guys. Tell the truth. Few things make your heart sing like seeing your woman in the buff.

But what about you, ladies? How do you feel about taking it all off? Are you the type who likes to strut your stuff? If you are, your man is one of the lucky ones because, for a lot of women, the mere thought of getting naked gives ‘em the heebie-jeebies.

Why in the world would the thought of walking around in the nude feel like a threat?

WE ARE VULNERABLE CREATURES

First of all, let’s be clear that by “a threat” I’m not talking about dangerous territory so much as vulnerable territory. What is it about getting naked that is so exciting for men and can be so off-putting, even scary, for women?

Two reasons: 1) men don’t know how to ask to get a “yes,” and 2) women don’t know how to give a “yes” that feels safe. It really is that simple.

Let me explain. For a man, “Let’s get naked,” is an expression of his love of the female body. In general, guys are highly visual, so the sight of his woman’s breasts immediately bolsters his happiness quotient. The curve of her waist, the roundness of her hips, the shape of her calf, all of these are fine works of art that make his optic nerve shout “Woo-hoo!” The sight of a bare breast can turn a grown man into an adolescent boy in the twinkling of an eye. And that enthusiasm flavors the invitation, “Let’s get naked,” with a sense of urgency that can push a less-than-enthusiastic woman away.

“But why?” a man might ask. “I just want to get naked so I can admire her beauty… touch her soft skin… wrap her in my arms… inhale her

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snuggle close to her feminine form… feel her warmth mingle with mine.”

And therein lies the gap between man-speak and woman-speak.

To her, “Let’s get naked,” means something on the order of, “Take your clothes off so I can see every inch of you,” which would be just fine had she not been marinated in idealized, fashion-magazine images of the female form. What women can’t seem to grasp, no matter how many times they hear it, is that men don’t even notice our imperfections. More than that, they don’t see our supposed figure flaws as imperfections at all! In fact, men LOVE our jiggly fat!

But there’s another piece of the “Let’s get naked” equation that both men and women do well to solve so both of you can win.

A lot of women think that getting naked implies “permission to penetrate.” They think, “If I take my clothes off, he’s going to assume I’m game to have sex, and then I’m going to have to figure out a way to jump off that runaway train.” The assumption that it’s an all-or-nothing proposition is the problem, not the nudity or the man’s sexual desire. She will remain reluctant until and unless she learns to state her needs and set clear boundaries. And that’s easy enough with a basic lesson in clear communication.

How To Set Your Boundaries <== State Your Needs

Couples leave a lot of fun on the table when “Let’s get naked,” means one thing to the man and another thing to the woman. When you line up your expectations, a whole lot of pleasure, fondling, sensual massage, snuggling, caresses, and skin-to-skin contact is yours to enjoy along with all those endogenous opioids that will immediately start bathing your brain in euphoric feelings.

 

 

 

 

 

Susan S. Bratton
“Trusted Hot Sex Advisor To Millions”
CEO, Personal Life Media

3 Responses

  1. Thank you for your emails. I look forward to receiving them…
    BTW, I’m a woman that loves getting naked! Loved being consumed in love and rapture…
    It’s the best!

  2. Your are sexy and awesome!
    Do you have a video on how to execute vaginal rejuvenation ?
    Im interested in the video if you have it.
    Thank you

  3. A lotta stuff I truly did not know, and unfortunately, I’m just turning 66 and have no wife or girlfriend. Oh well, my loss not anyone else.

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