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Squirting, Fingerbanging, and G-Spot Orgasm Secrets

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In 2018 (which feels like forever ago), Tim and I went to a sex workshop called “Squirting, Fingerbanging, and G-Spot Orgasm Secrets.”

Here’s the ticket for the event all those years ago.


We learned some pretty cool stuff, which I will share with you. But first, I want to define these three terms for you:

Squirting is female ejaculation. Women can release fluid from their urethras during sex. It is not pee. Get our free ebook, The Truth and Myths About Female Ejaculation, if you want to know more.

Fingerbanging is the rapid manual stimulation of a woman’s vagina, often with simultaneous G-Spot and clitoral attention.

G-Spot orgasms occur when you stimulate the upper vaginal canal (often while also stimulating her clitoris) to cause orgasms.

When a woman ejaculates, she doesn’t always orgasm. Orgasms sometimes include ejaculating (squirting). All women can ejaculate AND have G-Spot orgasms. Some women love manual stimulation. Those who don’t just haven’t had it done well. It feels fantastic but takes a trained partner.

Tallulah’s Female Liquid Orgasm program has videos that teach you a portfolio of stroke techniques that work on “regular” women.

(What you see in porn is only suitable for porn stars and advanced ejaculators. Don’t do what you see in porn to your wife or girlfriend. Most women want more of a “sensual goddess g-spot experience,” as we show on Female Liquid Orgasm.)

And every woman likes different pressure levels, speeds, and the number of fingers used — and she likes it slightly differently each time she is pleasured. Satisfying sex is an integration of stimulation and communication.


So here’s what it was like in the workshop.

The location is The Armory. It is a city block-sized, dark “Moorish Revival” architectural behemoth. It is styled in a red velvet Victorian feel with a labyrinth of many rooms and floors. Going there feels like stepping back into a bawdy whorehouse at the turn of the last century. It was a dark and stormy night.

About 60 people were seated in one of the paneled rooms. A fireplace was blazing in the next room. Their attention was on Dan and his workshop co-leader and squirter, Natasha.

First, Dan and Natasha presented squirting and where the fluid comes from. Then they discussed safe sex boundaries. Watch some of my Better Lover channel videos about debating limits with your partner. Even with long-term partners, having a quick boundary check before any type of sex makes it more gracious. So, learn how to have boundary discussions and become a better lover. Just watch my videos.

Then Dan and Natasha got into the demo. Dan put gloves on, talked throughout about cleanliness, and ensured her vaginal tissue wouldn’t get hurt by anything he did with his hands. He spent much time on safety and cleanliness, vital for a woman’s comfort.

Then he demonstrated many manual stimulation techniques, which you can find inside our video tutorials in Female Liquid Orgasm. You don’t need to come to a San Francisco sex workshop. You can watch these videos in the privacy of your own home.


Next, Dan incorporated sex toys into the scene. First, he used a flat vibrator on her clitoris while stimulating her G-Spot, and she ejaculated. Natasha was so cute. When she was orgasming, she would giggle like a little girl. Then she would come and then say thank you. That way, he knew she had another orgasm. Great feedback!

Next, he did the most fabulous trick. Dan took a vibrator from a cheap cock ring and dropped it inside a fetish glove. Then he put his fingers inside Natasha and used the vibrator on her G-Spot. I’d never heard of a fetish glove. They are thicker than regular gloves. He says they are smoother too.

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One word of caution! Many people, including me, are allergic to latex. Make sure you have nitrile gloves that fit tightly as an option.

Try the vibe inside the glove inside the vaginal canal and up against the G-Spot. This is the stimulation a few women have been dreaming about.

Try the new Womanizer Duo blended orgasm G-Spot vibrator and clitoral air pleasure if you’re solo pleasuring.

This gives me the MOST INTENSE G-Spot Orgasms!

Dan and Natasha also played with electrical stimulation in the G-area. That would be a little intense for me. But many women like a lot of stimulation and will enjoy this. He used a violet wand. Many couples are into electrosex. At least now you’ve heard of it! Even if it’s something that doesn’t appeal to you. 


Remember your waterproof sheet when playing around with the G-spot. Throw it over your bedcover, pull it off, and climb in for a good night’s sleep when the deed is done.

And make sure you have a lot of lube. 

G-spot pleasuring is now part of everyday sex. If you don’t have a stroke portfolio of g-spot strokes, consider getting our Female Liquid Orgasm program.

Click Here For The WomanizerDuo ⇐ Perfect For Solo Pleasuring and Blended Orgasms 

Women WANT to experience a g-spot pleasure. But they don’t want to be hammered like porn stars until they do.

Coming up soon, I have many new video segments on g-spot sex. I’ll be giving those to you shortly.

Until then, start practicing!

And if you don’t have a partner, do this: On your online profile, mention that you’d like to experience this and are looking for a practice partner. That will help you find a lover to practice with because manual stimulation is safe sex. So you can just get together and do “research.”

OK! Get squirting.

Gushing ‘gasms for all!

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