A lot of women WANT to give their men oral sex. They want to please their guy. But they would appreciate a couple of things:
- Not being expected to swallow his ejaculate.
- Not being expected to go down on him for so long that he ejaculates.
- Giving a lot of feedback on what feels best and encouraging her verbally.
- Being open to experiencing a wide variety of sensations.
- Not expecting her to use her mouth to replicate the sensations of his self-pleasuring or her vagina. The mouth is a different instrument. Finds its best attributes.
- Not pushing your penis in her throat unless she wants it.
- Going slowly and allowing her to enjoy herself rather than “servicing” his member.
- Moaning and expressing pleasure.
- Telling her how sexy she looks going down on him.
So, if you’re a guy reading this, know that your woman needs a little guidance and a lot of appreciation.
I received an email from one of my female readers who just started seeing porn for the first time, and she has a few things she wants to ask me about.
Check out her email and my reply below.
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“Dear Susan, I have a question.
I have been watching porn. I noticed sex usually starts with oral stimulation on a man. I think sucking a man’s penis stimulates the man to ejaculate very quickly. Does this mean the sperm goes to the woman’s stomach?
I also noticed some women in porn not only swallow sperm but also try to rub the semen on their faces. Is there a reason for doing this?” — Kaye (not her real name)
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Porn is just fantasy. It’s all made up by the producers. The actors are told what to do. These scenarios are just everyday men’s fantasies. Most lovers do not start having sex by the woman by giving the guy fellatio — the term for sucking a man’s penis. This is fantasy, not reality. Most people kiss, and it’s more typical that a guy goes down on his woman than vice versa.
However, when a woman sucks, licks, and strokes a man’s penis and testicles during foreplay, it allows him to slowly become aroused, which helps him maintain his erection longer. He can get more blood into his penis and get used to the sensations of the sucking, licking and stroking, so that when he enters her, he’s already been stimulated. He’s less anxious and able to relax and enjoy the vaginal sensations.
If a man ejaculates inside a woman’s mouth, she typically swallows it. But she can just as easily spit it out into a nearby towel. Her stomach acid might negate some of the beneficial ingredients in his semen. If she holds the semen in her mouth some of the hormones like testosterone and luteinizing hormone, the senolytic benefits of the spermadine, and neurotransmitters like serotonin can get into her bloodstream. There have been no studies comparing swallowing to vaginal or rectal absorption done. But good sex is healthy for you. So just enjoy yourself. You can watch my video here about the benefits of semen to a woman’s vagina and overall health.
Because porn is fantasy, showing women love semen so much they want to eat it and rub it on their faces makes guys feel better about themselves and their body fluids. Men love their semen. They like women to love their semen, too. This is a fantasy demonstration of this love to make the guys who watch feel happy.
Some women do like the taste of semen and swallowing it. Some women want to have semen on their faces and bodies. But only some, not all. Every woman is different.
If you have any more questions, don’t hesitate to send another email my way.
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