“Thank you for showing me that penetration orgasm is a learnable skill and that the fact that I didn’t have them is pretty common.” — Adelaide.
It’s not always the guys who come to me seeking sex advice.
Women, too, have desires to experience orgasmic pleasure with a lover. And a lot of times, the ladies are the ones with deep, wild cravings and fantasies.
Just like one reader who emailed me for advice about how her lover can give her more orgasms more often…
Isn’t that fun?
Check out her email and my response below.
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I recently came across you for the first time on the “Your Best Years Start Now” Summit. It was good timing, and I want to thank you for all you’ve shared on this topic.
My husband is 60, and I am 31 — an odd couple I know. But we are perfect for each other and are very much in love! We have only been married for 4 1/2 months. We have already had to work on overcoming issues like ED (obviously because of his age), and I knew very little about sex when we got married.
Here’s the other issue. He has made me orgasm through clitoral stimulation a few times only. This bothers him a lot more than it does me. I still very much enjoy intercourse with him.
But I want to please him. So I tried to find a resource to teach him how to help me orgasm.
Could you please tell me what one resource would teach him to stimulate me correctly and give me a clitoral erection, as you discuss? He doesn’t read very well, so something he could listen to would be best. I would especially like him to learn how to have orgasms from penetration.
Thank you for showing me that penetration orgasm is a learnable skill and that the fact that I didn’t have them that way is pretty standard. Even though everything else I heard made me think something was wrong with me. Or made him believe that something was wrong with him.
Thanks again.” —Adelaide (not her real name)
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Hi Adelaide,
Here are my videos on clitoral erection and penetration orgasm.
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And finally, if you can swing it, get your guy a series of six GAINSWave treatments ASAP.
This treatment knocks out the arterial clogging that happens as we age. It generates new nerve growth. And it increases his penile blood-carrying capacity so he can achieve and maintain erections.
It is not “normal” for 60-year-old men in good health to have ED. It’s familiar but not de facto. And it’s easy to fix!
I cannot recommend GAINSWave treatments more highly. And I heartily recommend you have him use a penis pump every other day during and for 90 days after the GAINSWave. They go hand in glove to leverage the benefits of both.
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Have him consider starting pumping. You can pump him up too. It’s fun! And you can pump him up before intercourse and roll a cock ring on him. Do that in the interim until he’s had his GAINSWave sessions.
One last thing. I like this Tiger vibrator for several reasons. One, you can masturbate with it. The more you give yourself orgasms, the easier it will be to have orgasms during lovemaking.
You can use the Tiger on your clit during intercourse to “cross-train” your body to come during penetration.
And the Tiger is a nice vibrating dildo you can insert inside you during sex dates as well. It’s fun to go down on your guy in 69 while he’s using the vibrator on you.
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