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“Husband not climaxing with vaginal sex” (Mailbag)

“Husband not climaxing with vaginal sex” (Mailbag)

“My husband of 25 yrs recently isn’t cumming during sex, so now I am finishing him off with hand/blow job or even anal stimulation. I’m trying not to take it personally but would like to know more on the topic. He’s 59, and I’m 50. Just looking for some understanding on what we need to do.” — Christi (not her real name) 

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I’ve talked a lot about the Orgasm Gap before. 

It’s the notion that men experience more orgasms than women in the span of their relationship because it’s much easier for a guy to reach his peak pleasure during intercourse than the woman. 

That’s because it’s much easier for a guy to reach his peak pleasure than a woman. 

But that’s not always the case. 

One of my fans just sent in an email that is quite the opposite. 

Check out her email and my response below. 

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“My husband of 25 yrs recently isn’t cumming during sex, so now I am finishing him off with hand/blow job or even anal stimulation. I’m trying not to take it personally but would like to know more on the topic. He’s 59, and I’m 50. Just looking for some understanding on what we need to do.” — Christi (not her real name) 

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Hi Christi, 

Let’s play detective to see what might be contributing to his difficulty achieving climax. This is VERY common with older men. Sensation loss can be driven by multi-variate issues. So let’s break it down…

First, how often is he watching porn?

Sometimes it’s a dopamine or neurotransmitter issue. Men who often watch porn get so used to the hyperstimulation they get desensitized to real pleasure with a lover.

Does he have diabetes? 

It’s also been found that those with diabetes often feel less sensation and pleasure than people without this disease due to neuropathy.

Is he on anti-depressants or other medications that make it challenging to climax? 

This has been an issue for some of my fans and readers in the past. 

Or is this simply part of the way he is aging? It’s common for both sexes to lose sensitivity as we age. 

If it’s aging, then GAINSWave treatments or the Phoenix Pro could stimulate new nerve and tissue growth to increase his sensitivity. 

Even my husband has undergone GAINSWave and has also used the Phoenix Pro. 

Reversing atrophy by using a penis pump could also help.

And the P Shot or Priapus shot would be the very first thing I’d use.

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It’s common to have sensitivity loss. 

Each person is different. So, the reasons could run this gamut.

Talk through these options with him. Let me know what you find out and decide. 

One Comment

  1. Hi Susan. I greatly respect and appreciate your advice and expertise. Thank you for all of the help you’ve provided to me and all of your other readers.

    I noticed all of your suggestions centered around the husband’s actions.
    Would it also be valuable to address the woman’s side of the equation? Maybe the wife has let her appearance go, which would diminish her husband’s libido and likelihood of ejaculation during sex. Since they’re getting older, perhaps her vagina has stretched and/or atrophied some. Maybe having children also contributed to this.

    If she doesn’t exercise and/or have a healthy diet to maintain her health and appearance, then she might want to consider making improvements in that area. If she doesn’t do anything to intentionally tighten her vaginal muscles, then she might want to consider doing kegal exercises or using a Jade Egg.

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