Hi my name is Rachel.
My husband likes to talk about and fantasize about me being with another man, is that normal?
I did have an affair about 10 years ago for a couple months and he knew about the sex part and he really got turned on by what happened and what I told he we did. We used to have really good sex together during that time. Does that mean he doesn’t love me because he like me to be with other men?
Yes, Rachel. It’s perfectly normal and more common than you imagine.
Everyone harbors specific fantasies that evolve over time and this particular fantasy is called, “Cuckholding.”
Some men like their wife to enjoy making love to another man and hearing and fantasizing about it and even more commonly, participating in the experience either by watching while in the room or even lying down beside you two and being present to the experience as you and your lover include your husband visually and with conversation.
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Further, there are many men who enjoy sharing their wife with another man with all three actively involved in the lovemaking. This can be a beautiful, soul-connecting experience where you share your humanity and sexuality together in a joyous union.
One of the most common situations in this category of sexual play is called, “MFM.” It means Male|Female|Male and connotes the two men pleasuring the woman but they are straight/heterosexual and do not actively stimulate each other.
A lot of women LOVE to be made love to my two men simultaneously. There are many fun things that you can do together in a triad. Being adored by two men at the same time can be a real turn on.
If you think this might be fun for you, and your husband obviously gets turned on by it, I’d suggest you consider trying it.
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The net net is you two can find a sweet spot between your desires and his that supports you both by talking about and exploring what excites you.
I personally think it’s hot and adorable that your man finds you so sexy he gets off sharing you with another lover. He loves you, Rachel. I’ll be he’d even find you sexier if you explored this together. But only do it if you find it exciting too.
There’s a world of exciting sexuality you can explore together. Why not see what you might find exciting and discuss your boundaries and desires together as a place to start? Even TALKING about these fantasies will spark your desire for each other.
Feel free to ask me any other questions you have and I hope this was helpful.