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Should Women Make The First Move And Kiss Men?

Should Women Make The First Move And Kiss Men?

I often get emails from women asking me how to kiss a man, and if they should make the first move and kiss the guy they like. Yes, even during the era of responsible social distancing. Learn how to initiate the first kiss.

When you like someone, you want to get close and intimate with them.

But of course, you do it smart and responsibly.

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In my previous email, I said that women should kiss a man a certain way to make him fall in love with her.

I did, but I didn’t mean that you should make the first move.

Here’s what I think.

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Do NOT make the first move.

If you do, it will destroy his masculine ego and make him unsure of himself. It might even scare him away because you’ve got more “balls” than he does by making the first move.

What you SHOULD do instead is to create situations where he’s practically forced to kiss you while still being “in control.”

First, you should understand that men have a tremendous fear of you, especially if you’ve just started dating or “talking” to each other.

They may act macho, alpha, and confident, but there’s a surprising amount of guts and practice involved before he can get comfortable talking to a woman.

Shocking him by making the first move and kissing him out of nowhere might cause him to pee his pants and run home literally.

So how do you get him to kiss you AND make him fall in love with you with how you kiss?

One thing you can do is to “get caught” wanting a kiss.

You can do this by purposely getting yourself caught watching his lips as he’s talking, then his eyes, then back to his lips.

When he notices you, look away and act coy. Sounds cheesy, I know. But this works and gives him the idea that you’re into him.

Another thing you can do is to wait for “accidental kissing moments” and give him a hint that you’re ready.

During dates, or when you’re talking to each other, you’ll encounter situations when your heads end up closer to each other than usual, like when he leans in to whisper something in your ear.

When this happens, don’t back away. Please stay in the moment, look at his lips, then up at his eyes, then back to his lips. Stay silent and serene at the moment.

If he gets this subtle hint, he’ll muster up the courage to lean in and actually kiss you. This is when you unleash your magical kiss on him.

If he STILL doesn’t make the first move, then it’s time to “talk” him into it.

Try some cute and innocent “kiss me” phrases.

Michael Fiore suggests steering a conversation towards kissing. For example, when he asks you what you’re thinking, smile and say something like, “Oh, I was just wondering what it’s going to feel like when you kiss me.”

You can also try, “Have you ever kissed a girl?” or “I wonder what true love’s kiss really feels like…”

Remember, you should never make the first move. However, you can influence a guy to make him want to kiss you. This way, he’s still “in control” (which is what guys really like), but all roads always lead back to your lips.

And when they do, blow him away with a kiss that makes him melt.

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