I get a lot of emails from both men and women about issues relating to erectile dysfunction and early ejaculation.
However, I also get quite a few emails about issues on the extreme opposite.
Some men take too long to ejaculate.
And while some guys (and women too) right now are going to think, “That’s not a bad thing at all..,” a few readers of mine feel otherwise.
Just like Violet (not her real name), who wrote about her lover’s extreme ability to “last all night long….”
Scroll down to read her email and my response below.
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“Susan, help. This is killing our relationship.
It is impossible to go 20, 39, or 40 minutes every night before he finally climaxes.
I get pleased quickly, and he says he wants to continue pleasing me, but I’m done, and I know he’s just struggling to finish for himself.
I get so dry after I orgasm, and he takes so long.
He’s 56. Not taking Viagra etc. He doesn’t have problems getting erect.
We both have demanding work schedules, we’re exhausted, and we start early in the morning for work—both divorced—grown kids.
He’s such a great person. How do I handle this?” — Violet (not her real name)
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Hi Violet,
Thanks for writing to me. I feel your anguish.
The very first thing you must do is tell him that his “delayed ejaculation” is uncomfortable and unpleasant to you. That he’s taking too long, and you don’t want to have intercourse after you’ve climaxed. Ask him to masturbate himself to climax when you’ve had enough intercourse.
Explain to him that you don’t want to have sex after you get dry, and you are terrified you will no longer wish to have any intercourse with him if things continue the way they are now.
Tell him you love him and want to remain sexually active but can no longer sustain the current situation.
Secondly, are you using lubrication for intercourse? Please augment your natural lubrication with some organic coconut or avocado oil. I have links to the ones I recommend in my Amazon store here.
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Next, I suggest you get him one of these Fun Factory prostate stimulators. The additional sensation should hasten his ejaculation.
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And most importantly, what I’ve suggested above is a temporary measure
Your guy has lost sensation from health issues such as diabetes, lack of Nitric Oxide production (take L-Citrulline), has blown out his pleasure circuits overdoing porn, or has another health issue.
These are the likely reasons why he can’t more easily climax… Unless he’s always had this issue, it could perhaps be a deep-rooted shame of some kind or some sort of earlier emotional trauma.
Is he on any medications? There could be a contraindication.
I’d heartily suggest he see a functional urologist. They can get to the root of the problem.
If he’s generally healthy and just dealing with a lack of sensation, a series of GAINSWave treatments will help to reinnervate his penile tissue.
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GAINSWave stimulates new tissue growth in the penis.
Then last but certainly not least important is to check out this video of my interview with my good friend Jim Benson, the creator of the M.E. Breath and the Multi-Orgasmic Lover for Men program.
We talk about harnessing masculine energy and improving men’s orgasmic potential. We touch on how to achieve male-multiple orgasms, ejaculatory choice, and sexual stamina… as well as overcoming premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and even anorgasmia.
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Those are my initial thoughts based on the amount of information you’ve supplied thus far.
There is no reason to suffer. Please talk to your man.
Let me know how it goes.