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Genital Sensitivity, Garters, Lubes, And More

Today, we’re diving into a subject that many people shy away from but that I believe is essential for a fulfilling sexual experience—genital and clitoral sensitivity!

Now, why should you care?

Increased sensitivity can enhance pleasure for both men and women, making sexual encounters more enjoyable and connected. 

Think of it as turning up the volume on your favorite song—you get to feel the beats and the rhythms that much more intensely!

I received an email from a reader looking to spice things up in the bedroom. But she’s having problems with genital sensitivity. Check out her email and my response below. 

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HELP ME FEEL 

“Hi, Susan. 

I enjoyed your podcast with Emily and thought I would send you some questions. I am a 53-year-old sexually active female.

I use the small womanizer during sex as it helps me orgasm, and I can take my partner deeper. It’s kind of loud. What else do you recommend for my clit?

I would also like to know about creams for more sensitivity. I was looking at this “Promescent” product, but the reviews are not great on Amazon. Any suggestions?

When it comes to lingerie, where do you like to buy yours? Also, with a garter belt, are you always wearing heels? Are they closed-toed?

Lastly, I had a tummy tuck after my son was born, and it was great, but that scar :<  Do men care, or is it a made-up story in my head?

Love your work!

Thank you.”

Chia (not her real name)

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Hi Sweetie, 

Here is my Quiet Vibe Guide. Some toys can get loud. And I agree, the Womanizer is noisy!

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I recommend you get GAINSWave For Her treatments for sensitivity.

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I buy lingerie anywhere I can find stuff that fits me. Lingerie stores. Amazon. Department stores. Wicked Temptations (note, they are slow to ship). 

I wear them with stockings and a garter. I wear heels because that’s what Tim likes. I can use open or closed-toed shoes. 

And lastly, no…

Men do NOT care at all about the scar. They don’t even see it. Their testosterone gives them rose-colored glasses! 

Use a silicone scar removal sheet to see if it can disappear if it’s bothering you. But otherwise, just put it out of your mind. 

Our estrogen makes us overly critical of ourselves as a protection mechanism. It’s an imperfect system and can make us hard on ourselves. Guys do not care! 

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