Guys, you’ll want to read this tonight. Ladies, show this to your lover.
I’m letting you in on a little secret about how women feel about asking for what they want behind closed doors.
I am sure you want to give your lover incredible pleasure, and you would even forego your pleasure to ensure their satisfaction.
You’re a giving lover.
But women are so shy! And most of the time, they think they don’t know what they want. Their most significant issue with clueing you in is the fear of hurting your ego.
They don’t want to “correct” you.
Women will tolerate stimulation that doesn’t give them the sensation they need to achieve incredible pleasure to make them feel good.
Wouldn’t it be so much better if they just told you “higher,” “harder,” or “to the left?”
Here’s my secret trick to getting a woman to open up and ask for what would feel best in every moment. You can then adjust and deliver the right move, tempo, pressure, or position to repeatedly take her over the edge.
I call this the “Sexual Soulmate Pact.”
Sexual soulmates are co-created. It’s never too late to turn your mate into your sexual soulmate. And you can start on the very first date.
A pact is an agreement. You can walk your lady through this so she feels free to shout, yell, or moan anything she needs to say to make loving feel better. The Sexual Soulmate Pact has two parts: Reporting In From Your Animal and Thank You Magic.
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REPORTING IN FROM YOUR ANIMAL
The first is an understanding that we are little creatures on this planet. Like dolphins, dogs, and ducks, we are part of the Tree of Life. We are on the tree branch with other primates, including chimpanzees, bonobos, and orangutans! When you put our bodies in perspective, we are intelligent animals, but animals nonetheless. Then you realize that your body is in control, not always your brain.
Next, consider that the female of our species has estrogen hormones that run on a 28-day cycle. In contrast, you beat the daily drum of testosterone. Testosterone is the hormone of lust. It makes you horny every day, especially in the morning.
Her estrogen aligns with the moon, even after menopause. Her desire is strongest in the 5-day window around ovulation. Count out nine days after the start of her period. Those next five days are her most lusty. If she doesn’t have a period anymore, or you’re unsure WHEN she has her period, use the full moon as your guide.
Target the five days around the full moon to have a sexy date with her. Make a date with her before the day in this five-day window you are targeting.
For example, if her five-day window starts on a Monday, plan the date for Friday. Let’s say her period starts on the 1st of the month and lasts about five days. Day six, seven, and eight are good days to make a date with her. Day nine is the beginning of her horny window, and it lasts through days 10, 11, 12, 13, and 14. Tease her with anticipation instead of just springing a date on her. That way, she will have time to get turned on and excited, preen a little, and “be ready” for your surprise. Even scheduling a couple of dates in that window stimulates her hormones further while giving her time to get fully turned on and experience incredible pleasure. Remember, when a woman is ovulating — that’s her horny window — typically around the fertile, full moon, she’s most open to her sexual pleasure.
You can make love anytime during the month, but she will respond differently every single time. Her moon cycle, sleep, stress, and even when she last ate will impact whether she feels like a kitty or a lioness.
That’s why what you did that worked great last time isn’t getting the effect you want this time. It makes sense, right? She needs different stimulation every time you make love.
When you realize that it has less to do with YOUR technique and more with her animal nature, you can let go of the feeling you’re doing something wrong when she needs you to change it up. It’s not you. It’s the animal body in which she lives and loves.
Your job is to find out what her body needs in this session, which means you want to encourage her to “report in from her animal.” You are on the same team. You acknowledge she’s a changeable creature. You encourage her to tell you anything and everything.
However, you need her to skip the manners and say what she needs. If she has to be a good girl and say, “Please go harder,” it takes her out of her orgasmic brain wave state and into her business head. And the only business allowed in the bedroom is monkey business! No manners. Let her stay in her surrender to pleasure with your attitude being, “Just tell me anything, baby.”
BUT…
She’s afraid you’ll feel rejected, or you’ll get your feelings hurt. The only way you’ll get her to risk saying what she needs is to encourage her to feel her body’s wisdom and report back from her animal body. And thank her every time she clues you in.
THE POTENCY OF ENCOURAGEMENT
When she hears you say, “Thank you, baby. Does this feel good?” Or “Good girl, keep telling me what you want.” She will hear your confident response. She will feel encouraged to speak up. And you will get the feedback you need to give her the pleasure you want her to have.
The Sexual Soulmate Pact is the most potent sex technique I teach because sexual techniques are less powerful without excellent bedroom communication.
Now that you know, you need to encourage her. She’s changeable by nature. And you won’t take her feedback personally because it’s not your fault. The Pact gets you two onto an upward pleasure spiral of continually improving, expanding pleasure together.
I liked the feedback loop. I never thought of giving my “animal side” permission to report on what it needs. My man just loves it!
~ Christine G, Honolulu, Hawaii
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Susan Bratton, Intimacy Expert To Millions
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