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Why Do Some Women Squirt and Others Don’t?

Why Do Some Women Squirt and Others Don’t?


With all that liquid being expelled during squirting, I just had to ask,  “what produces it and why is it that some ladies squirt and others don’t?” — P.F., Port Harcourt, Nigeria


Dear P.F.,

The liquid that is being expelled from the urethra is prostatic fluid.

It comes from the female prostate which is also known as the G-Spot.

Believe it or not, women have a prostate just like men do!

In fact, the prostatic fluid has the same components as ejaculate except without the semen.

This fluid is clear and watery and can be released in amounts from a few droplets up to more than a cupful.

Women can ejaculate once in a session or several times.  It can dribble, gush, spurt, squirt and anything in between.

There are several ducts called paraurethral glands which feed into the urethral canal which are housed inside that spongy mound with ridges called the G-Spot.

When she is aroused and or stimulated, these glands fill with fluid and get engorged with blood and release the ejaculate through the urethral canal when she expels the ejaculate either through pushing it out voluntarily or releasing it involuntarily.

All women have the capacity to ejaculate because we all have the anatomy to do so.  Here are some reasons why women don’t ejaculate:

  • She simply doesn’t know it is possible or even exists.
  • She mistakes the feeling of needing to ejaculate for the feeling of needing to pee and either holds back or goes to the bathroom.
  • She has a hard time getting into a deeply aroused and surrendered place sexually.
  • She is not with a partner she feels comfortable with.
  • She doesn’t masturbate and is not in touch with her body
  • She has body image issues and self-consciousness
  • She doesn’t know where her G-Spot is and it is not getting enough stimulation
  • She is afraid to let go or she is afraid the ejaculate might make a mess
  • She has experienced sexual abuse, shame or trauma.
  • Her Pelvic Floor Muscles or PC (Pubo Cocxygeus) Muscles are too tense or too weak
  • She is not giving herself adequate enough time to build up the ejaculate and get into a highly aroused state

These are just a few reasons I have helped women address over the years through my program, Female Liquid Orgasm for men and couples, my program for women called Squirt Your Heart Out and my international SquirtShop workshops.

Just remember that there is nothing inadequate about you if you don’t or can’t ejaculate.  You are not less than if you don’t ejaculate.  So have lots of compassion for wherever you are at along your sexual journey and know that it is perfect.  Just keep opening and exploring your sexuality and follow what brings you pleasure and connection with yourself and your partner.

Wishing you the Best!

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  1. i’m a girl of 21yr and i have been datin for a year nw bt i have never sqiut before.i seriously wont to have that experience.pls help me out

    • I can help u with that problem!!…just email me [email protected]

      • Hi I would like to k is how to make my gf squrit and if all girls canncuz I have been trying everything and its not working

      • Please teach me how to squirt

        • I can help you with that. E-mail me and we’ll discuss

        • Hello hun iv made every woman squirt that iv been with maybe i just know how the way i do it

          • Please send me your email or mail me.Let’s disscuss.I want to know how to make a woman squirt

          • What’s the secret? I’ll trade you for it..

          • Really we need to link up then

      • How do you squirt. I have heard it sound awesome I want to have one. Can you guide me ?

        • Give me ur email I cn give you tips

      • Am 32 yrs old and I have never squirt b4 would love to experience it,plz tell me if there is anything I can do or learn in order to experience this.

        • hey,i am an expert at squirting and have made my every partner squirt.

      • hello my name is Rene

        I am 46 and my biggest fantasy and wish is to Squirt help me please what can I do?


        • Rene,

          Hello. The video link above is the best one I have seen in terms of helping you understand how to squirt. It is educational and I really hope it helps. Let me know if this is good or not….



        • I’m needing help with learning how to squirt

      • my pussy is flappy and I never squit even when I reach the end only white staff is flowing from my vaginal

    • okay dear it is not a difficult matter try to make your hand or your’s bf hand in your G.Spot wit the passage of time you would soon squirt try to do this practice 3 to 5 times in a given occasion

    • I am pleased to help you Chenelle.

      Hope to hear from you . [email protected]

    • hi chenelle . i wish to you find a way to squirt until now. so if you didnot find a way please see below.
      1- take of your clothes
      2- push your finger to your pussy
      3- move your finger in your pussy up and down
      4- when you get orgasm must be relax and pee.
      that is it.

      • Ammo,
        I appreciate you trying to give advice about female ejaculation. But please know that everyone is very unique and there is not “one right way” for a woman to ejaculate. That is why we have our program, Female Liquid Orgasm. This shows MANY ways to achieve ejaculation.

        • The issue of every woman being different is SOOOOO Real! I could make my last gf squirt so much that she ruined our $7K mattress! My two new GFs have never even had Gspot orgasms so I gave my one gf one the other night and she orgasmed for about 12 minutes. My other one I can only get to clitorial using the same method. So I’m learning that each one needs different amounts of pressure to get them there. So I’m finding that the technique is the same, but the amount of pressure is different, also the frequency of stroke is different. I’m hoping to get the clitorial one to Gspot by the end of this month. Also, hoping to get the other one to squirt by the end of this month, but with our busy schedules, I can only see each one once a week. To be clear, I shouldn’t call them gf’s because we are all divorced and right now we’re just having ‘play dates’.

  2. i’m a girl of 21yr and i have been datin for a year nw bt i have never squirt before.i seriously wont to have that experience.pls help me out

  3. I just have my first squirt, few droplets. I would like to know if I am able to squirt more.

    • Hi Mela,
      YES! And congratulations on feeling the first signs of wetness. Keep putting your attention on pushing out and letting go and you will see it go from a little moistness to a few drops and continue to escalate until you can actually shoot it out like a firehose. . . As long as you are anatomically built to squirt like a hose. Most women are. And every woman is capable of having ejaculatory orgasms.

      • I like the way you explain things to experience the feeling of Squirts.Does it connected with the gentle scratching of the ‘G’ spot?

      • Susan, you seem to know what you’re talking about.
        Here is my experience with squirting. Up until this last year (I’m 20 and have been sexually active since 16) I had no idea I could squirt. At first that was something pornstars did that I completely did not understand. I did for my first time when I was with my ex who was very confident and experienced. He made it a point to try and get me to squirt and knew exactly how to do it. Since then, I have done it here and there but it seems to get more and more frequent and “more” every time. I have no idea why. My partner won’t even be trying. And I’ve surprised some men before who have never ever experienced making a female squirt and I can’t help but feel kind of embarrassed every time I do it. I guess I just get in to it but I’m wondering if it might have something to do with how I flex the inside of my vagina over and over during sex? Please help. Is there a way to get it to stop when I want to? I don’t know how to feel about this!

        • That is a gift don’t let it stop u from enjoying sex makes me hard thinkn bout u squirting lol

      • Susan I’m a 51 year old male and have never seen a female squirt before. Some of the videos I watch it looks like they are squirting a cup full or more !! I sure wish I could squirt like that ! It seems that they cum a lot more than men do …. I’m wondering if it’s me not knowing what to do. 🙁

    • woooooow really awesome . where r u from . do u have facebook id .plz send friend request in my id ”[email protected]

  4. I can squirt all night long soak beds for hours , will I get hurt doing it like that , If I drink water I can even go more, I just do not want to hurt my body by doing it so much if it is not good for me thanks

    • Hi Janell,

      Good for you! You can squirt as much as you want. It will not hurt you. Definitely drink a lot of water to make sure you stay hydrated. You are a true goddess!

      • How does it tastes? sweet of salty? Of course the liquid should taste good at the height of experiencing ejaculation.

        • It’s just like semen. Whatever your lady eats affects the taste of the ejactulate. Most the time, my wife’s has a sweet taste. No salty taste.

          • She probably has diabetes!

        • liquid orgasm is sweet but creamy orgasm is salty.. I have tasted both really nice.. I like to taste..

    • I hope you like doing the washing and drying the sheets. Jesus, it would be like having sex with someone who needs a nappy!
      I say go outside in the rain and mix it all up. then you wouldn’t worry bout the sheets and your lover wouldn’t need an umbrella!

    • Janell..plzz get in touch..with me..Love a Squirter like u..

  5. Hello I’m a 30 year old female. Been happily married for 10 yrs. I’m very comfortable with my body and with my husband. I have been having orgasms for years. Started when I was a teen! When I have the orgasm it just basically feels like I become wetter on the inside. I don’t actually squirt. Am I unable to squirt?

    • im 19yr and same here! i have a boyfriend that i love and he is the one. he does everything that i like so i have pleasure and i have orgasms every day, but i never squirted and i dont know why.

  6. I think everybody can do it, just a matter of practice.

    • Hi there I’m a guy n I would like to say that its good for u n I’m sure that ur husband would b greatly Desirable when u do it in sex’so get urself comfortable n use to it I’m sure he will like it.and generally speaking all guys like when his woman do that it just gives more pleasure to him in sex,as for me I like it when my wife squirts it gives me grate pleasure and the more she do it the more overwhelm I keep it up!

      • Try the two middle fingers doing a cum here motion, you will feel a spongy bit of the Vagina about 2 inches in. Stroke it towards the the top of the pelvis. Feel it swell with fluid listen to her breathing and quickly extract your fingers and rub her clit. This works for me most often, however not all women squirt , they just get very wet, either way if you give them a g spot orgasm, you set yourself apart from most men and they will become addicted to you and your skills
        Gold Coast Australia

        • So true I have a woman who squirts I love it wouldn’t have it any other way just make sure u r both on her side of the bed lol

  7. I wd do anything 2 atleast squirt once in life,if there was anyway,tired of hearing about this in rumours,someone help me out

    • This is coming from a guy …

      I have made woman , orgasm many times but only squirt once … The difference in experiences was this …

      1. She was already aware and confident that she could
      2. I was confident enough to know that I could get her to that point
      3. We communicated well so we both knew where we were , and how we were both feeling during the experiece.

      So I say those things to say that you may actually need to accept that fact that although it hasnt happened yet , It can. Also find a party who is somewhat already sexually experienced his or herself. A Newbie won’t be able to help you much. Lastly, communication is key. The more familiar you are with your body, the more you can direct your partner on exactly how to get you where your trying to go.

      Hope I helped

      Best of Luck


    • I figured out how to squirt today, when you are about the have an orgasm, push down and out,instead of closing your legs and stopping. then it will all come gushing. worked for me twice tonight…Normally whenever i would have clitoral stimulation and orgasm i would tense my whole body, close my legs and stop touching it since i could barely take it anymore, it would feel crazy, and make me shake, But this time instead of stopping him, i left my legs open and he kept going, i pushed out a little and sure enough i squirted for the first time. it was amazing, and my body was shaky for almost an hour afterward. I have been with my partner for 7 years, always had orgasms but never squirted. until today!!!

      • I am happy for U ..I have a new girlfriend that never really ever did in her whole life either. After 3 months of going out and her comfort level was good I told her to open her legs and after building her up I used my 2 fingers and used the up and down motion with just 2 inches inside her hitting her G spot. Within 1 min she gushed so much she was shaking all over , made a huge mess LOL ..I was able to repeat this 5 more times with her. Now a week later I tell her when to push and it comes out like a hose its so wild NEVER have I seen such a wild mess ..All I did was watch a video on this and thats how I learned so I am thinking MAYBE all woman or most can do this. Good Luck either way!!

        • What video did you watch?????

      • Thank you will try it tonight…..

    • Just relax and let go! I was always afraid I was gonna pee but one day I just didn’t fight it and have been having amazing organisms since 🙂

    • Yes itd be possible that u need a new partner 🙂

  8. Not everyone can squirt, that’s the first thing every woman must know, its a rear phenomenon, its either you do or you dont, you cannot learn it…atall..its just like not all women are bursty and not all women have hips, and no all women are tall..etc..
    if you cannot squirt, the best thing is to relax, enjoy the sex, try to understand your body and what makes you climax and how your body reacts to a climax…forget the squirting…
    you are very normal if you don’t squirt…and yes, u have an extra charm if you squirt, but squirting does not determine fabulous sex….i love the fact that i squirt…i squirt to a fault…changing sheets and towels…ma boy enjoys it and he keeps coming back for more..buh, it does not mean if you don’t, ur not having a nice time…so not every woman can squirt…

    • Hi, Holly,
      Though I appreciate your kind comments, they are not quite accurate.

      Every woman is fundamentally able to squirt.
      Every woman is physically able to ejaculate.
      Women’s bodies ejaculate.

      You are normal whether you squirt or not.

      Squirting can be learned by any woman.


  9. My wife is 41 and has had a complete hysterectomy is she still able to squirt

    • Yes. Any woman can ejaculate and the uterus and fallopian tubes (the pieces removed from a hysterectomy) do not affect a woman’s ability to ejaculate.

      • Susan, if a woman has had a total hysterectomy, is she still able to have a vaginal orgasm?

  10. Yikes! Cant squirt?! OMG… Call out the Army. I guess that I am juzt lucky, having squirted upon at an early age!!

  11. I have no problem with reaching a climax, in fact I typically have multiple orgasms. Yet, I have never actually squirted. I do ejaculate, but it is thicker than what I have seen from squirting videos (not as thick as males). I am 36, married and very open sexually…. tips on how to reach that point of squirting?

    • Firstly your entire article is biased.Clearly you are a “squirter”. You list all the reasons why, in your uneducated view, some women do not “squirt” and then you go on with the disclaimer “Just remember that there is nothing inadequate about you if you don’t or can’t ejaculate. You are not less than if you don’t ejaculate. ” This is a ridiculous post.

    • I make my wife squirt two, three, four times every sesh. It works best if the girl is riding and she sits up straight while the guy just drills her and holds her hips. Another great squirting position is girl lays on her back guy is on his knees and lifts girls legs. Straight up and goes in deep fast and hard

    • The best way I can say Bc I’ve made all my gfs squirt is to start with four play lots of four play and oral sex then fore play then once they cut over and over from head I insert myself slowly an partially at first let her squeeze my head and feel it pulse then I rub her clitoris with my thumb and after picking up a lot pace pull out and slap clit and re insert repeat and I like to try to fit all of myself if I can when I’m finally ready and after I nut I make her hold her legs back while I keep going for another three or four nuts I love to cum and I love making women cum gotta eat it right and beat it right 🙂

  12. I’ll make all of you squirt…

    • Try to make me squirt

      • I can if youlle email me sexy… Or Skype. Isolation322
        Is my user name

  13. I love it when the woman squirt when we’re having sex!! Some dribble others literally gush and squirt and sometimes their orgasm leaves them unable to move for a minute or so, but in a pleasurable way and during this time they’ve all asked me to continue to fuck them hard as the next orgasm and squirt is even more intense!!!
    It truly is an amazing experience! I love pleasing these ladies 🙂

  14. I have only made 6 women squirt in my life. But for me it is such an awesome thing to watch a women experience such an intense orgasm when their bodies start shaking violently and they can’t stop….

  15. I really think that not all women have the capacity to squirt.
    The worst hit are African women or black women.

    Without meaning to be disrespectful…a good number of black women have inability to stay wet…no matter their level of arousal or how much they arr comfortable with their partners they just cant squirt except for a tiny few.

    Many of them do have orgasms…but its all deep inside…their vaginas reflect no unusual wetness let alone squirt.

    White women, latinas and Asians are more juicy and wetter than our women and they squirt more.

    My observation, no offense intended please.

    • Black women squirt just as much and are just as wet

    • ….maybe the African American women you where with just wasn’t in to you…because I’m African American and I stay wet plus a super squirter…so maybe it’s you….

    • Im puertorican and not for show off but my patner had told me the same thing that my pussy is very juicy and he love when I squirt….

  16. I have been married for 25 years. I have been with probably 10 women in my lifetime deeply intimately. I have made all of them squirt. 8 of them never had before. I focus a great deal in multiple stimulations at once. Clitoral, g-spot, rimming, scratching gently on legs, back and buttocks. With each one you can tell which one is their primary trigger, and which are secondary. I alternate till I know my partner’s spots and I have made women squirt with clitoral stimulation only. With g spot stimulation only. Or a combination of sensations. The key here is knowing this session will be 75% about her needs and let her lay back and enjoy the next couple hours. I may not get my reward then…due to being very tired…but it comes back around eventually. When your man takes the time to fully find your triggers and make you feel complete you will have 20-30 orgasms and 2-3 squirts. Work on Keegal exercises it will allow you to push at the right time. Try keegal beads or Benwah balls to strengthen the muscle group. Your man will love you for that!!

  17. I was only able to do it with 2/7 of my partners and I think it’s because I didn’t really feel comfortable with the other 5. I just grab their hips or buttocks very tight and keep swinging her body, you could feel something spongy on the tip of your penis when you’re touching the spot and just keep rubbing it until they squirt. Idk if size matters because mine is not huge, it is about 8 inches. You also have to make sure she’s very very aroused too though that’s my experience. Being so concentrated on making it happen never let me come, but their reaction was by far more satisfying.

    • omg, i think you’re confused between g-spot and uterus. with a 8 inches dick, btw, not short (?) if you can only feel something spongy on the TIP of your penis, then this is definitely the end of the vagina (which is generally 6-8 inches deep), not the g-spot! the g-spot is just inside, in the entrance of the vagina

      your thoughs on this susan?

  18. I read how everyone wants to squirt…. But how do you squirt less? I don’t mind squirting, at certain times it is great but I squirt so much all the time it causes such a mess that I stop before I orgasm just so I won’t squirt and make a mess in the bed. I’m starting to feel squirting is becoming a curse 🙁

    • Please darling,dont feel that wayl Men love it. I wish i could take a shower all the time in a women’s squirting fluid. Wow. Wow..embrace it. don’t curse it. I wish you could sqiurt on me NOW.

    • No sweetheart!truly a real guy loves it a lot when u can squirt over n over it gives him great joy so don’t b afraid us men loves it a lot!!!

    • Just use underpads for your bed. I get the XL 30″X36″ It will soak up all the good juices.
      Have fun from now on.

    • I understand what your going through! At the same time I enjoy being out of control and squirting, just not the laundry. So that I am able to have the best of both worlds, I purchased some water proof pads. This helps keep bed dry and the pads can be washed with anything so I just toss in laundry and have them ready for the next evening. Hope this helps.

    • Omg! Me too, I like it cause my hubby likes it but I’m stuck with a big mess plus we have carpet and rugs in the bedroom.

  19. Its more that a great pleasure for a guy who knows how get his woman to squirt and also if she does it on her own for him.a real man knows the joy n overwhelming feeling when his woman can squirt over n over again.he can’t resist it,n its also a womans secrite to keep her man coming after her.only a real man knows it all.n as for me I can’t enjoy sex if my woman doesn’t do it I can’ ladies don’t hold it in we men loves it a lot n trust me on this!!!

  20. It is the best pleasure in sex for a guy who loves when his woman squirts.but generally a real man loves when his woman gives him great pleasure n when she can squirsts over n over it jusT gives great joy n overwhelming feelings to enjoy sex to a maximum climate.we men loves it,n its also a womans secret of keeping him coming after u.

  21. Hello, I am a relatively new squirter with many questions. Your article has answered many, thank you!
    I do have a question that even Google can not seem to answer. Is there a link between after enjoying a squirting orgasms to not being able to control other bodily functions, in my case I am referring to twitching and crying.
    I can understand why I can not stop twitching, some organs can be very intense. However after climax I can not control myself from crying. I’m not sad. My boyfriend and I joke about me being so “full of fluids” I’m “leaking” everywhere. Do you have any answers for me?
    Thank you.

    • Hi Knox,
      Thanks for asking about the twitching and crying. This does happen to many women. The crying comes from the emotional release that your ejaculatory orgasms create. For many women, the first year or two that they begin to ejaculate (or even for women who are having clitoral, G-Spot, cervical or vaginal orgasms without ejaculation) there is a discharging of upset and stored emotional energy that triggers tears.
      The twitching is also common and can be very powerful for some people. Google the word, “KRIYA” to learn more. Kriya is a Sanskrit word that means action. Often associated with “Kundalini rising”, kriyas are involuntary body movements that are related to an increase in “life force” or prana/Chi/Qi.
      You are moving energy in your body. This sexual energy is “life force” which is also “desire.” The orgasms “reboot” your system and interact with the enteric nervous system. Don’t be afraid of these releases. They are natural, and won’t last as long as you are not “stuffing” your emotions. Let the ejaculation refresh you. Embrace your body’s way of discharging your emotions.
      I hope this helps, Knox. Thanks for asking such a valuable question.

      • For all you men, easiest way to make your girl squirt is to use your fingers as your penis. In a fast pace motion go in and out. Takes 2-4 mins tops and your gonna have a soaked bed. Susan would agree

      • Susan when a man is with you he has an umbrealla with him along right? And wears a swimming suit?

  22. I am 44 years old and never thought i could squirt let alone have an organism. My new man in my life turned me into a faucet and it’s better than anything u could ever experience i cannot get enough of him. Our bed is soaked on a daily basis and I cannot wait for him to get home at night. It seems I’m a teenager all over again. And he loves watching me squirt, quite a turn on.

  23. I, too, love when my wife squirts. It is such a pleasure seeing and feeling her reach that level of pleasure.
    As for all that fluid, we use the Liberator throw underneath us when we make love. It’s waterproof and keeps the sheets nice and dry. Since she can release up to a half cup or more of fluid, we also put a thick bath towel under us to soak up all our love juices.
    Good luck and happy pleasures to everyone. Keep trying if you haven’t experienced squirting. Be patient, stay relaxed and let the loving continue. It’ll be worth it when it finally cums!

  24. Hi I’m a married man who has often made my wife squirt but the last gusher she had she almost blacked out! So now she is very apprehensive and scared when we have sex! Any ideas?

  25. Ha…. I think this is funny. Sucks if she pushes or tries to squirt and she actually just pisses everywhere. Sucks for that couple and whatever they’re doing it on.

  26. Very Interesting

  27. I am only 18 and I mastered squirting 2 years ago. However, I feel that most men need some help when it comes to them getting girls to squirt. No one I’ve been with can do it!!

    • How were you able to do that?? Maybe if i can master it by myself i could then do it with my man. Idk if it will work though…being 39yrs old and having had a hysterectomy. I also heard that when your younger you are more wet and more sensitive in your vagina.

  28. My husband and i have been married for 13yrs. He is a well-endowed man but a selfish lover. When he does have sex with me(which is not very often)he wants me to cum just with sex….no foreplay! I have made myself cum using a dildo so i know i can cum without touching my clitoris. He has failed the few times hes tried & he says hes done trying. His ex could achieve not only a vaginal orgasm but also she was able to gush! I asked him about it & he told me he loved it…the bed was soaked and he licked up her juices. Him giving up on me on me in the bedroom which doesn’t help our marriage. I love sex(I’m kinda a nympho)but it doesn’t matter to him if we have sex or not. I have a lot of sex dreams but nobody to please me in real life! I want to be able to have vaginal orgasms and gush so we both are fulfilled in sex! I don’t no what to do our where to begin! HELP!

    • You married an asshole. He shouldn’t give up on you about that – if he loved you, he’d want to make you feel good. He’d get off on it. If he is SO lazy and selfish that he has completely given up on giving you orgasms, he’s a seriously bad lover and honestly, either talk to him about it on a really serious level or consider a divorce. A selfish lover usually entails a selfish husband.

    • He is selfish. I have more pleasure when my girl has more. So he should be trying to do whatever he can to please you. I wouldn’t mind helping if I could, give up “Never”

    • Leah I am sorry your husband is selfish. I have been there. I can tell you what I did for twenty years to give him what he wanted as well as the release I needed.First I became very familiar with my body using fingers or toys. I also read short sex stories to add sexual fantasies in my head and when my husband was having sex with me I used these tools to help me get off. Obviously I did not have the greatest sex life except for in my mind. This is just an idea if your not ready to walk away from marriage. I can tell you that I am divorced now and with a wonderful man who has showed what it means to have intense emotional mind blowing sex, whether through intercourse or foreplay, so that I will never need to fantasize about anyone but him. So now in my forties, I have learned so much. Having a partner that I trust enough to ask questions or try what ever fantasy pops in my head with has released a whole new person I never new existed. I can’t ever seem to get enough! Hope this helps!

    • Leah I hope you read this.. I’d love to be of some service download skype and find me, please.. Dean, isolation322

  29. Hi,

    I have just recently heard about this squirting orgasm. I’ve never had a woman squirt im my sex life. Can anyone tell me how I can get my partner have some squirting orgasm, because I’d love to see her squirt.

  30. I have a problem where i cum whenever my man sucks on my earlobe.the problem is we recently mastered squirting. So now im squirting in public whenever he comes near my earlobe. Its so embarrassing and everyonr thinks i pee myself without !!

    • don’t worry that you can train to omit your squirt inorder to command your mine

  31. I actually didn’t know what it was. I’m an older woman that had an encounter with a gentleman younger than me.We planned to have sex together. I went to his place after we got to know each other.He said I was a Goddess an African Queen( I’m black he’s white)I was so relaxed. I was so sexually aroused I had multiple orgasms He was hitting the G spot and we were like freakin zoned out to just passion…When we were done i was so wet underneath me..T thought i had peed but he told me i was squirting.Does the man know it while having sex……I can’t wait till our next episode !

  32. I’ve been trying to squirt for a while now, and I just can’t get there. My bf is inexperienced and I just can’t seem to get there by myself… I tried to “push” it out when I get to climax, but nothing happens. I’ve watched the videos and am completely relaxed with him. nada… any tips?

  33. Susan,

    Is female ejaculate acidic, or alkaline?

    • Ask someone in the page to send you some to analyze. Usually squirters are very generous people that love to share that with other human beings. So if you ask they will send you bottle of “juice” that you can check out.

  34. I can squirt like a looooot, but most of the times when I feel it coming it can’t go out if the dick is inside, but if I pull it out it sprays immediately.. It feels better if when I pull it out he rubs it around my clit

  35. I’ve been a VERY FORTUNATE hedonist! I’ve had nine committed relationships, in my 64 years of life; with SIX squirters among them! And, THREE of them; were multi-orgasmic, as well!!!

    • Eddie… you are lucky indeed!

  36. Hi guys. Interesting to read all your stories from the UK. Do love a squirter. Anyone up for some fun? To find them is white rare I find

  37. I didn’t squirt the first time for real until I was 44 with a hot new younger but experienced lover. I think I might have leaked some before with my exH but was embarrassed and stopped it, and I had always had trouble reaching orgasm at all.
    With the new lover I was feeling free and super turned on. Our first time together after a LOT of build up I squirted. I was on my back with him on his knees between my legs that were pulled up in his lap. He took his penis in his hand and rubbed me all over with it…hard and rough with the head. It was amazing!!! Now I can squirt with any rough penetration or external stimulation like that. Fisting is crazy for making me squirt, too. Love it!!

  38. So to make a women squirt you need to rub her clitoris ryt? “want to know HELP”

    • Hi Joel,
      Different women ejaculate with different stimulation. Some women ejaculate from having their clitoris stroked, some from their G-Area palpated and others from a blend of the two. As well, some women can ejaculate simply through the penetration of intercourse or even just from fantasy. You’ll have to experiment with your woman, but I can tell you that the stroke patterns inside Female Liquid Orgasm make it a sure thing that you’ll know all the possible moves to make any woman experience the joy of female ejaculation.

  39. At th age of 18 in 2008 when i firstly made a gal squirt i was scared and i thot she was dying, she was weak, her whole body was shaking involuntary and she took too long to get back to normal, i was scared. This month i made 3 gals squirt that believed they cant squirt. Every gal has an ability to squirt, believe me.

  40. I so agree with the comfortable part. I was in a crappy marriage then started messing around with this guy. We were together for 8 months and I never fully felt comfortable with him. He’d try to make me squirt but I never could. After him I got involved with a police officer who served me lol. Anyway I felt comfortable with him and the first time (and every time) we’ve done it I’ve squirted multiple times.

  41. did you see the squirt of veronica avluv and can a woman squirt like her and with her speed she could squirt in just 3 seconds and the times od it is alot from 20 to 40 times

  42. I am in my 40s and just recently starting squirting. The first time I didn’t even know what it was – my partner had to tell me – at my age! I was on top and soaked him and his bed 3 times.
    I was with another, very skilled, partner this week and found that I can squirt through vaginal penetration, finger stimulation, and also external stimulation. He made me squirt so much that I soaked the bed and doubled up towels – soaked!! Think we stopped counting around 12 times.
    I have no idea why I just started squirting when I never had before but it’s awesome. I always thought it was fake!

  43. Here is a suggestion for you ladys, It worked for me get on your knees and rub a vibrator on your g spot, as if in a praying position. Its harder for your body to hold back relase in this position one time in this positon is all it took, unless I put a plastic liner on my bed I soak the mattress and my boyfriend for hours.

  44. I squirt but I get kinda embarrassed, my husband loves it & he says that it’s a good thing. I was wondering since I am easy to make horny and I get wet easy could that be a factor in squirting/gushing?

    • Hi Christa,
      Some women just ejaculate more easily than others naturally. For most other women, with the right knowledge, encouragement and stroking, they can easily ejaculate as well. Don’t be embarrassed. It’s a beautiful thing to be able to ejaculate. Your husband loves it. So many men find it super hot. Embrace your feminine waters and enjoy!

  45. Can women in 50s and 60s and older squirt?

  46. My fiancé and I are literally studying how to get me to squirt. I cream a lot every time we have sex and when he goes down on me he is able to give me multiple orgasms till I start shaking. Can I squirt that way? Can you please give me the best tips on mastering this?

  47. Hello, I am 23 and I have never experienced squirting before. My fiance tries so hard almost to the point where he has worn himself out. I feel bad, because I really want to and I want to share something like that with him, but it’s just not happening. We have tried different things, like gspot vibrators, stimulating inside as well as out, different positions. But nothing seems to work. Please help. We both want to experience what this “magical” moment is truly like.

    Thanks -Jt

    • first thing you must be horny as much as you can so let him kiss you the way you like and do the things you like and it is better that your mood is good as well then you should tighten the muscles of your vagina during intercourse and then push the muscles outside as hard as you can and keep doin this all the time by the time you will fell wet inside and squirt and a small note when you are goin to squirt you vagina will push the cock outside the vagina

  48. Well in my 31 years i have had sex with diferent girls but only three of them has experienced this squirt…one of them is 23 years old and she said it was her first experience squirting…tbe other two are 45,,and,,40 i was with that squirt so much that i had to swallow it to know how it taste it doesnt has flavor or smell..just a liquid that it get me more hard everytime i see it coming out…as i said i have had only three diferent experiences but i.m.sure i will have more experiences like these….good luck finding your source lol..blessings and merry christmas

  49. Well OMG… I’m 52 years young and had my first gushing experience ever on New Year Day! I was quite relaxed having flown in from a vacation and went directly to my lovers house for the evening. He’s got incredible latin passion and we have been together for only 3 months. At the beginning he could sense that I was too preoccupied with still being a “good girl” so I asked him to help me seek my inner goddess. He generously spent lots of time down there each week and always believed that I could squirt if I could just let go… His nickname for me was “one pop” because I was content with one good clitoral orgasm then ready for sleep. He then showed me how to have internal orgasms, lots of those! Game on!!!

    So how this occurred for me was on my back, lots of foreplay with tongue and fingers. I felt I needed a little more direct stimulation so I added the Pocket Rocket on my clit then POW! Orgasm hit then large bursts of warm liquid exited uncontrollably and pulsed out. I lifted my head with a “what the hell was that?” look on my face and my BF was so proud to congratulate me on my first squirt! And he said don’t worry about the puddle, the mattress was protected in advance. I’ve been giddy and glowing all week like a teenager; free from the shackles of my mind and seeking my next adventure.

    Best wishes to great experimentation and exploration in 2015!

    • One Pop Laura,
      Thanks for bringing to life the thrill that women feel when they experience their first orgasmic ejaculation.
      It just keeps getting better from here.

      • I am having problems with this squirting. I’m wondering since I have a tilted uterus would this be a problem. But then everyone makes a big deal out of it and I get in my head thinking I’m the only one who can’t. Then I start to feel inadequate. So would someone please send me the proper techniques.

  50. Hello I am 27yrs of age and just squirted for the first time and boyyyy was I happy lol

    • I’m happy for you. It only gets better from here!

  51. My gf usually gets to the point of squirting but then she goes to pee instead of letting it out, i really wanna make her squirt before she goes back to her home state, how can i get her to just let it go

    • Hi Tory,
      I appreciate your desires! Yah.

      All you need to know about how to get your lady to relax and allow her ejaculate to come out is covered in audio, video and ebook format (three modalities) inside Female Liquid Orgasm. This program is designed for couples who want to enjoy female ejaculatory orgasms.
      Here is a link to get a free ebook about squirting: The Truth and Myths About Female Ejaculation

      Keep trying! Arm yourself with skills and knowledge.


  52. I’m 26 yrs old and I’ve never had the pleasure of squirting. I’ve been with my current boyfriend for only a year. My last was seven years. And reading some of these comments im pretty confident that with my ex I was probably close to squurting quite a few times what with the urge to pee and very intense feeling to cum. But as others posted I too tense up and hold back but still orgasm. So my problem now is not only do I want to do experience squirting with my new man for the first time. But he is more shy for lack of better word than me. It took me a while to get him comfortable with dirty talk. He’s more of a lover in bed and I’m more rough and kinky. So I know I’ll only be possible to squirt if he does all the things I like. So my question is how do I break him in with all that without freaking him out? Because I’m getting bored with all the masturbating and fantasizing… I’d like to make it happen. Thank you.

  53. i was with on older woman..about 10 years..she said none of her other lovers made her squirt ..but she could……she asked me if i would freak out if she did it..i said go for it…it was over a cup full bc she had been holding it in for so long…she squirts about 80% of the time.. not to be too crude, but she said it was a combination of fast penetration, hitting right spot..and she would tell me when to pull out ” which i learned when after a while without her telling me… she said that i made her squirt so much bc in doggie style my balls ” which are big” was hitting against her clit so much and so hard that it defiantly contributed for her arousal and ability to squirt so much… we tried other positions it would never happen, just from behind…do you think there is any truth in that…she knows her body , so i can only agree….btw i am the only guy that has made her squirt….other than her masturbating…..which was rare for her…she said she had to have actual penetration. and a fast pace…i would be wore out, sweating so much..i got more satisfaction from her organism as i would if i did. and it did help her when we had sex in places we should not…like public places…it really turned her on.., but i do believe she is correct in my balls hitting her clit so much and so hard that played a part in it.. any thoughts on this?

    • btw once we broke up, she would call me over bc other guys either didnt like to be squirted on or just didnt know what to do….its is true practice makes perfect.. i do believe that about every female can squirt, but that they think it is urine. and may be embarrassed that it is piss..ladies..if you fell an orgasm, and fell like you got to pee, it is not piss…let it go and have a understanding and trusting lover..and it is not really orgasm like a guy… it really has no taste to it…it is mostly secretions and is more water and salty taste than anything…and she needs to hydrate ..either it beer, wine , water, ect. water is the best… tell your lover you have this super ability…many guys have never experienced this….she would , shake and quiver for a few and we would keep on going…she would squirt up to 5 times in one session…i would be worn out and we wouls just lay together until she would just fall asleep from the serotonin released ..we had to keep a beach towel near by . and made sure it went onto the hardwood floor… not the bed. my next mate would stop it before she would squirt bc she never done it before and would quit bc she thought she was going to piss on me…i tried to tell her what it was..but she still had multi organisms. maby when my new gf and i have sex, she will do it…if she is able and willing to let herself go. LADIES , WE RATHER YOUR GET OFF THAN US , BC IT GIVES US GUYS CONFIDENCE.. and be sure to talk about it and make her tell you what really turns her on…instead of having to guess….tell us guys what you like and want!!!! please!!

      • I can get any guy to make me squirt. Its a matter of knowing your own body & letting go! Its the BEST feeling & a lot of the time my husband won’t penetrate until I do. He absolutely loves it & so do I. I’ve been asked by many guys who heard through the grapevine how to do it so I feel I’m performing a public service for their women by telling them what to do. 😉

        • What is the grapevine

        • Soaked, can you get ahold me? Please.



  54. as you seek earthly pleasure, remember Jesus is coming soon

    • Excellent news, Bryan! Just for the record, I ALWAYS think of him while I’m earthly pleasuring myself, but I wasn’t expecting him to ever actually show up!

      One quick question though — why are you telling us here? Does Jesus comming soon have anything to do with female ejaculation?

      OMG…I always knew that god isn’t so prude as to totally outlaw me from stickin my dick in fully 50% of the people in the world (<1% of the mammals). What a waste of holes that woulda been. So Transvestites ARE god's chosen people; now THAT'S a revaluation! Hellafuckinlulla!!!

  55. The very first time this happened to me I was in my early 20’s, I had been having sex since I was 14, I really thought that I had peed it was embarrassing but I let it go. Then it happened again so I went to the Dr’s and explained to him what had been going on, I told him recently every time I have intercourse I am urinating, he asked me if I noticed an odor, I told him there was no odor. He asked when it dries up is there a color to it, I told him you can’t tell where it was, but I had told him it’s very very large amounts, I didn’t think my blatter could hold this much fluid because within 20 min. There are huge wet spots all over the bed and if you smack the spot it splashes back up at you. He told me there is nothing at all wrong with me, and it’s not urine, he told me to enjoy it and always make sure that I stay very well hydrated. I am now 42 and just from having my partner smack his thingy on my clit, it’s like a rain storm. I have learned so much about it and I’m very comfortable with it.

  56. I also cannot squirt while the guy is inside of me and a lot of guys never understood why I would always say pull out now!!… Or while in doggie position I would back away, it’s the only way of letting it out.

  57. Hi my name is nadine been married for 6 years i am 28 years old but i realise i never ejaculated any help

  58. I have only squirted enough times to count on 1 hand 🙁 for some reason I just really have trouble with it and I haven’t been able to figure out why. Everytime I get close I just can’t push it out, any suggestions or advice? Please help!

    • Hi Maria

      Make sure u r extremely turned on. Take ur time at least 30 min of foreplay with ur vagina & gspot & B completely in the moment mentally which is so important for a woman & communicate with ur partner. I give my gf a full body massage as well as a yoni massage before I make her squirt.

      Good luck 🙂

  59. Hello i uses to squirt before and dont know what happened to me my current boyfriend has an issue with me not squirting i have tried all my best but it can still come out plz help me

  60. The term “g-spot” may be a bit unscientific. Try “Skene’s Gland” when researching the exact function of this area of the vagina, and you’ll see studied that show variations between women in how well this gland is developed, which may better account for why some women can and some cannot squirt. It may not all be their fault.

    • What could it be cause I never squirted before and I would love to have a chance to see what everyone’s talking about

  61. It’s going to be end of mine day, except before finish
    I am reading this enormous piece of writing to improve my experience.

  62. I got my partner squirting early in our relationship and she did not know what hit her, I am 65 and she is 62 and we have only been dating for 18 months. I learned the art here and put it into practice with each girl I went out with to there amazement of whayt they can do. there is always a towel round now so the bed and carpet does not get wet.
    I have now got it to a position that i can make her squirt while I am in her and we both get wet. It is the first time she has orgasmed with penetration in her life preffering clitoral stimulation. gabby has taught me to improve now and my partner has got up to 8 before begging me to stop!!! such is life.

  63. I do squirt alot like tooo much that i have to stop sometimes so i dont do alot mess on my bed..but i love it

  64. My girlfriend has squirted once in the past with someone she met long before me. She is 46 and has since had an LVH. Is she still capable of squirting and, if so, how can I help her squirt again? We are very much in love and I want to give her the gift of a squirting orgasm. By the way, she is very orgasmic and comes easily.

  65. I am a transgender female an i really enjoy squieting like a female.. didn t know until tonight that a male can also do it.. Mine will really soak the sheets !! Lordy, it really makes mefeelso much like a female.. Guys i have dated thought it was very unusal for someone like me to be able to do it.. It s a great feeling when it happens.. A clear thin ,slick fluid that squirts out an i have no control when it happens..

  66. My partner made me squirt last night & must admit it was amazing!! Every man needs to make their woman squirt. Largest orgasm ive ever had

  67. I never had an orgasm nor I never squirted before what should I do

  68. I’m only 22 years old, and I know how to squirt. When I’m in the mood, my boyfriend can make me do it almost every orgasm, I usually have about 7-10 every time. The best advice I can give is; focus on your muscles, squeezing them together during penetration can help, make sure you are doing it with someone you are HIGHLY sexually attracted to and that you are very aroused! 🙂

  69. I have been squirting for twenty years now and it is amazing. My first experience scared me. I was much younger and did not know what was happening to my body but it felt good. I wanted more, so I begin to allow myself to become more in tuned to the feelings that preceeded my orgasm. Now I’m a PRO at it. I can squirt literteally 8 feet across the room. As a result from squirting multiple times, I can become extremely dehydrated and exhausted, however, at times I become very energetic and gitty. My husband is always extremely aroused after I have squirted and he can not keep his hands off of me afterwards. My husband and I always experience a new and different emotional connection and it feels like falling in love all over again.(EVERYTIME!!!)

  70. Hello I’m 34. Years old. I’m dating with 67 years old man for a couple of years. We make love for at least 3 hours 3-5 times a week. He can make me squirt like fountain. I think I squirt like 20-30 times during Our sex. Our bed is so week after sex. We are so open mind, he is toting me, gushing my pussie, fingering (what I like the most). Also. We like to film it for us.
    So folks get relax, open your mind,tell him what you like

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